Eurythmics
This is a club remix of the Eurythmics classic, stripping the original's icy synth-pop menace down to a looped mantra built for…
universal desire ambivalence and detachment perseverance
Massive Attack
A slow-burning meditation on desire as self-inflicted damage, built from a handful of repeated images—storms, sin, flame,…
desire and self-destruction moral ambivalence addiction to feeling
Mott the Hoople
A car-as-lover conceit built on classic Mick Ralphs blues-rock riffing, where the singer casts himself as a Cadillac cruising…
romantic ambivalence masculine bravado cars as bodies/desire
Gang of Four
A fractured meditation on desire and alienation, this song asks whether what passes for love is really love at all, or just…
alienation under capitalism commodification of intimacy loss of language/memory
Steely Dan
A comic-paranoid narrative about a man trying to evade a woman he finds both terrifying and, eventually, magnetic. Steely Dan…
obsession and avoidance paranoia as comedy ambivalent desire
A blues-rock stomper built on a single blunt paradox: love as bondage that still feels good. The lyric never resolves the…
obsessive love addiction loss of self
Laura Marling
A ritualistic breakup song that treats an ex-lover, or an old version of the self, as an intruding spirit to be exorcised.…
exorcism of desire boundary-setting self-possession
Lauryn Hill
Performed live and introduced almost as an experiment in vulnerability after the confrontational 'Rebel', this song builds an…
surrender spiritual longing conflated with romantic desire purification
Mercury Rev
A woozy, fragmentary lyric that treats hope, love, and self-medication as nearly interchangeable sources of temporary relief.…
addiction and craving fleeting relief emotional withholding
Billie Holiday
A blues in the classic call-and-response mold, this song lays out the contradictions of loving a man who mistreats her while…
ambivalent love emotional dependency blues fatalism
Fairport Convention
This is a French-language cover of Bob Dylan's "If You Gotta Go, Go Now," translated and rendered by Fairport Convention as a…
romantic ambivalence control disguised as freedom nighttime intimacy
The Pretenders
A live rendition of a Pretenders deep cut that treats fame and validation as a slippery, half-mocked obsession. Chrissie Hynde's…
ambivalence toward fame self-invention desire versus disillusionment
George Michael
A dance-pop declaration of self-preservation dressed up as a love song: the narrator is attracted to someone but refuses to hand…
romantic self-protection distrust of surface attraction patience versus desire
SZA
SZA casts herself as the mistress in a triangle and refuses the shame the role usually carries, framing her position as a…
infidelity and complicity self-worth versus desire possession and comparison
A hushed, circling meditation on romantic ambivalence, sung from the position of someone who claims to wish an ex-lover well…
ambivalence possessiveness disguised as tenderness jealousy
Amy Winehouse
A blistering, funny complaint about a lover who keeps letting the narrator down, built around a chant of ownership that keeps…
possessive love betrayal and self-deception ambivalence
Queen
A deceptively simple breakup anthem built on repetition and plain declarative statements, John Deacon's song uses the language…
liberation romantic disillusionment self-assertion
Marvin Gaye
A late-night dance-floor come-on built almost entirely from repeated affirmations of desire, this track functions less as a…
desire nightlife/escapism romantic pursuit
Cat Power
A cover-turned-confession that uses a familiar, almost weightless hook about wanting someone to stay as a container for…
codependency ambivalence emotional need vs. love
Angel Olsen
A short, driving song that circles a single unresolved feeling: the narrator loves someone who is present in her thoughts but…
unrequited or distant love self-doubt forgiveness as an open question
St. Vincent
A breakup song built almost entirely out of blunt, escalating metaphors, each one recasting the addressee as some kind of prop…
toxic attachment self-deception performance vs. authenticity
A hard-rock stomper about sneaking past disapproving parents to get to a girl, played entirely for comic, cartoonish swagger.…
teenage rebellion forbidden romance comic machismo
Maxwell
A neo-soul love song built almost entirely from negation and comparison: the singer catalogs firsts and never-had-befores to…
gratitude romantic awe transformation through love
Blondie
A breezy, almost novelty-pop daydream in which the singer imagines escaping gray urban New York for a sunlit, surf-and-luau…
escapism urban alienation fantasy vs. reality
New Order
A song about a relationship curdling under the weight of unspoken resentment, built on the tension between wanting release and…
emotional withholding breakup and loss communication breakdown
Curtis Mayfield
A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…
romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship
Chaka Khan
A pure dancefloor invitation built on a single sensory equation: funk equals sugar equals irresistible pull. Chaka Khan spends…
physical pleasure dance as surrender desire
Tom Petty
A stripped-down invitation song built almost entirely on repetition and a single image: a secluded cabin as the destination for…
seduction escape desire
Joni Mitchell
A three-part meditation that uses clouds, love, and life as parallel case studies in disillusionment, each verse moving from…
disillusionment the limits of experience loss of innocence
The Velvet Underground
A hushed, plainly strummed confession about loving someone who is unavailable, oscillating between tenderness and quiet…
forbidden love longing and loss guilt and self-justification
Steve Earle
A restless narrator describes a life spent chasing things he can't hold onto, only to find every path circling back to a lost…
obsessive love restlessness ambivalence
A woman narrates a summer of collapse—medication, isolation, avoidance of family and mail—while a chorus repeats a request to be…
depression and isolation medicalization of the self desire for external repair
Lucinda Williams
A slow-building meditation on desire built from small domestic gestures rather than declarations. Williams narrates a private…
longing memory and its physical trace solitary desire
Roberta Flack
A slow-building meditation on desire that treats ordinary moments — a walk, a candlelit dinner, a touch — as triggers for…
desire and intimacy the sensuality of the ordinary seasonal renewal as metaphor
Bruce Springsteen
A minimal, hushed blues built on obsessive desire, where the narrator's want curdles into something closer to torment than…
obsessive desire sleeplessness and mental anguish transgressive attraction
Michael Jackson
A nocturnal meditation on urban restlessness and desire, framed as a defense against unnamed accusers who question the…
urban alienation desire and impulse self-justification
PJ Harvey
A jealous, obsessive lover refuses to let go, oscillating between pleading vulnerability and menacing possessiveness. The song…
obsession codependency possessiveness
Brandi Carlile
A hushed confession about desire that can only surface in sleep, this song is built around the gap between what the narrator…
repressed desire unrequited longing self-restraint
Maxwell casts desire as an addiction that the singer both craves and cannot escape, framing love as a compulsion with real costs…
addiction as metaphor for love loss of control guilt and self-awareness
Sarah Vaughan
A standard by Hoagy Carmichael and Ned Washington, here rendered by Sarah Vaughan as an intimate meditation on physical presence…
desire and presence the inadequacy of romantic cliché vulnerability