Results for “anxiety and self-management”

Songs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

It's Not Up to You

Björk

Björk works through the anxiety of trying to engineer a good day through sheer will, arriving at a kind of surrender: control…

control versus surrender anxiety and self-management chance and openness to surprise

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Love Me More

Mitski

A pop song built around a compulsive request for reassurance, in which the demand for love slides into a demand for numbness.…

self-destructive coping dependency on external validation anxiety and burnout

Destroyer

The Kinks

The Kinks revive Lola from their earlier hit only to trap her in a nervous, self-lacerating anthem about anxiety and…

paranoia and mental illness self-sabotage fame and surveillance anxiety

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

At Home He's a Tourist

Gang of Four

A clipped, funk-inflected post-punk track that treats leisure, culture-consumption, and sexual routine as forms of alienated…

alienation under capitalism commodification of leisure and sex self-improvement as anxiety

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Good Days

SZA

SZA builds a fragile refuge of hope inside a mind otherwise flooded with anxiety, heartbreak, and existential dread. The song…

mental exhaustion romantic disappointment anticipatory dread

Swingin Party

The Replacements

A wallflower's confession dressed up as a party invitation, this song uses the image of a never-ending bash to talk about…

social anxiety self-deprecation isolation within community

Slow Show

The National

A socially anxious narrator stumbles through a party, undone by self-consciousness and low-grade panic, while yearning for the…

social anxiety longing for domestic intimacy self-deprecation

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Fool In the Rain

Led Zeppelin

A love song built around a single, faintly absurd predicament: a man waiting on a street corner for someone who never shows,…

misplaced faith romantic anxiety self-deception

Peacekeeper

Fleetwood Mac

Lindsey Buckingham turns a post-9/11 anxiety into a taut, addressed warning, speaking directly to an unnamed 'peacekeeper'…

war and militarism self-destruction complicity

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Anti-Hero

Taylor Swift

Taylor Swift turns a self-lacerating confessional into a singalong chorus, cataloguing her worst self-perceptions—insomnia,…

self-loathing and self-awareness fame and disproportion fear of abandonment

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

Coming Up Roses

Elliott Smith

A hallucinatory address to a self or double, tracking a slow poisoning that the speaker frames as a kind of blooming. The song…

addiction and self-destruction dissociation from the self toxic inheritance

Everything Is Everything

Lauryn Hill

A meditation on cyclical change and self-determination that doubles as a virtuosic display of rap craft, this track pairs a…

cyclical change and renewal self-empowerment spiritual/religious syncretism

Chasing a Bee

Mercury Rev

A hazy, druggy fable about pursuit and containment, where sunlit imagery of seduction and pleasure keeps curdling into images of…

intoxication and altered perception freedom versus entrapment instability of the self

Take It Back

Cream

A jittery blues-rock chant built around a repeated demand to remove some unnamed threatening object, the song reads as a…

conscription anxiety fear of death/violence dependence on a partner for safety

Be the Hook

Pavement

A loose, semi-improvised jam that pokes fun at the mechanics of rock performance itself, name-checking bandmates and mocking the…

self-referential performance parody of rock cliché band camaraderie

Oh My God

Adele

A woman recently out of a long relationship narrates the giddy, guilty rush of falling into a new attraction she knows is…

post-divorce self-reinvention guilt versus desire loss of control

Apeman

The Kinks

A satirical music-hall romp in which the narrator renounces modern civilization's pretensions and declares himself happier as a…

anti-civilization satire environmental anxiety nuclear dread

Terrible Love

The National

A song built almost entirely from repetition, this track circles a single image of love as something dreaded and entered anyway,…

ambivalence toward intimacy anxiety and insomnia avoidance vs. compulsion

Don't Follow

Alice in Chains

A stripped-down acoustic confession from a narrator who insists on leaving while quietly begging to be brought back. The song…

addiction and self-destruction isolation vs. longing for home guilt and self-recrimination

Bigmouth Strikes Again

The Smiths

A serial motormouth apologizes for cruel things he's said, then dramatically inflates his guilt by comparing himself to a martyr…

guilt and self-loathing comic martyrdom the damage of words

Free

Florence + the Machine

A song about anxiety as a physical predator and dancing as the only available exit from it. Florence Welch frames mental illness…

anxiety and mental illness stigma and self-doubt catharsis through music/dance

Street Flash

Animal Collective

A song about the paralysis of anxious self-consciousness and the small, almost accidental relief of stepping outside. It moves…

anxiety and self-criticism domestic clutter as psychological weight inertia versus movement

Stop Me If You Think You've Heard This One Before

The Smiths

A breakneck, self-aware confession that treats romantic disappointment as a repeating accident nobody can prevent. The title's…

self-repeating heartbreak denial and accusation masochism and self-punishment

Backwoods Barbie

Dolly Parton

Dolly Parton uses her own famously exaggerated image as the subject of a plainspoken self-defense, arguing that artifice and…

appearance vs. substance class and self-invention self-defense against stereotype

No Cities to Love

Sleater‐Kinney

Sleater-Kinney open their 2015 comeback album by stripping away the myth of place entirely, insisting that no city itself…

disillusionment with place/identity nuclear anxiety and dread self-erasure and emptiness

Bury Our Friends

Sleater‐Kinney

A comeback anthem that treats survival as a physical, almost surgical process — a body being stitched back together and forced…

reinvention and self-repair fame and visibility collective anxiety/dread

All Falls Down

Kanye West Tribute Band

A meditation on materialism and insecurity in Black American life, built around a fictional college dropout in the first verse…

consumerism as compensation racial economic inequality self-consciousness and insecurity

Where's the Catch?

James Blake

A song about the discomfort of being happy, sung by someone so used to disappointment that contentment itself feels suspicious.…

distrust of happiness anxiety and self-sabotage intimacy versus paranoia

My Tulpa

Magazine

A tense, self-lacerating address to a phantom or projection—Devoto's title borrows the Tibetan Buddhist concept of a 'tulpa,' a…

obsession and self-deception desire mixed with fear the unreliability of perception