Carly Simon
This is Carly Simon's rendition of the Rodgers and Hart standard, a love song built entirely on negation: it lists the trappings…
romantic sufficiency anti-cliché love presence versus fantasy
Buzzcocks
Buzzcocks turn the language of pulp romance novels and magazine love stories into a way of talking about the gap between…
mediated desire self-deception longing vs cynicism
De La Soul
A radio-skit framed jam that turns Saturday roller-rink culture into a loose celebration of release after the work week,…
leisure and release community ritual casual romance and its double standards
The Cars
A synth-driven new wave track that uses driving and traffic imagery as an extended metaphor for a woman leading a secret,…
duplicity and secrecy urban alienation surveillance/control
Free
A brash blues-rock boast about womanizing that curdles into confession, as the narrator's swagger about juggling multiple…
infidelity and desire self-awareness vs self-destruction masculine bravado
Van Halen
A breezy, party-anthem celebration of seasonal freedom, cruising, and casual flirtation, delivered with the loose-limbed swagger…
youthful escapism seasonal freedom casual romance/objectification
Frank Sinatra
A Rodgers and Hart standard in which every socially disreputable trait ascribed to the title character turns out, on inspection,…
class satire nonconformity irony of reputation
Lauryn Hill
Lauryn Hill delivers a two-part sermon on sex, self-respect, and modern relationship dysfunction, addressing women in the first…
sexual double standards nostalgia for a simpler past personal responsibility
Musiq Soulchild
A smooth-talking pickup song built around the coy euphemism of a spelled-out chorus hook, in which the narrator pitches a…
casual romance seduction as negotiation ambiguity of commitment
Kacey Musgraves
A catalog of no-win social judgments builds into a plainspoken anthem for living by one's own compass rather than trying to…
double standards sexual and social freedom religious hypocrisy
The Velvet Underground
A loose, easy-rolling shuffle about romantic patience versus urgency, dressed in vague hints of bureaucratic or criminal…
desire vs. patience urban anonymity casual detachment
Bill Withers
A confrontational, deeply personal song in which Bill Withers turns the tables on someone who has been trying to convince him…
gaslighting and psychological manipulation hypocrisy infidelity and betrayal
Sonic Youth
A chance meeting on a train dissolves into a hazy, possibly murderous conspiracy between the narrator and a stranger, with the…
complicity and denial desire as danger dream logic
Aretha Franklin
Aretha Franklin plays elder counselor to a wounded young woman, using the image of a rose to insist that sexual betrayal doesn't…
self-worth after betrayal intergenerational female solidarity resilience
Jenny Lewis
Jenny Lewis turns a wry observation about aging and gender roles in male-dominated creative circles into a meditation on…
aging and the double standard childlessness and biological clock anxiety gender roles in creative/professional spaces
Snoop Dogg
A breezy, funk-lined party track built around a loose come-on: the narrator invites a woman out while making clear her…
casual romance/nonchalance abundance and disposability of partners nightlife and hedonism
The Band
A blues-rooted warning song built almost entirely on one refrain: the woman you love will mistreat you, and that mistreatment is…
romantic mistrust resignation and complicity double standards in love
Bessie Smith
A blues warning delivered as a curse: the narrator threatens a philandering partner with damnation, using the devil as a…
infidelity and betrayal moral reckoning female assertiveness
Stevie Wonder
A slick mid-80s dance-pop track built around the mechanics of a secret affair, complete with coded signals and cover stories.…
infidelity and secrecy coded communication double standards in relationships
Mott the Hoople
An early Mott the Hoople track built on a swaggering put-down dressed up as rock bravado, with a narrator addressing a woman he…
misogyny/double standards rock star posturing public image vs private reality
J. Cole
J. Cole confesses to serial infidelity while dressing the confession in the language of fame, guilt, and self-destruction. The…
infidelity and guilt fame's corrosive pull self-awareness without change
Jethro Tull
A pastoral seduction song that turns increasingly ambivalent, using the image of a lush green hillside as both a real place and…
pastoral seduction innocence versus experience double standards around sexuality
TLC
A nostalgia anthem built on the language of enduring friendship or love, TLC's "Way Back" leans on classic soul and R&B…
nostalgia loyalty over time reunion
Mississippi John Hurt
A talking-blues that starts as an ad-jingle riff on a coffee brand and quietly turns into an extended sexual pun, with the…
desire disguised as domestic ritual double entendre longing and pursuit
Eurythmics
This is a cover of the 1934 standard, recorded for a mid-1980s charity Christmas compilation, and it plays the song fairly…
young romance seasonal escapism imaginative play
George Michael
A dance-floor confession dressed as a come-on: the narrator openly admits he's chasing casual sex to numb loneliness rather than…
casual sex as self-medication loneliness disguised as hedonism emotional honesty within a pickup
Ramones
A three-minute cover of a 1958 rock and roll standard, stripped down and sped up until the invitation to dance becomes an…
teenage romance dance as ritual nostalgia for 1950s rock and roll
Cassandra Wilson
This is Cassandra Wilson's 2015 reading of the 1938 Coots/Gillespie standard, delivered as part of a tribute to Billie Holiday.…
intoxication as metaphor for desire self-awareness versus helplessness obsession
A Gershwin standard turned into a wistful catalog of small, physical habits belonging to a lover the singer may lose. Sinatra…
memory as possession impermanence of romance the erotics of small habits
Emmylou Harris
A folk-ballad narrative about a young Louisiana woman named Mary who runs off with a drifter, told through a shifting cast of…
escape and restlessness cautionary romance generational warning
Red House Painters
A travelogue-love-song hybrid in which Mark Kozelek narrates a brief, intense LA romance with a woman who has her own buried…
transient romance idealization of a lover Los Angeles as mood and symbol
Harry Nilsson
This is Nilsson's reading of Irving Berlin's 1924 standard, delivered as part of his second collection of pre-rock pop songs.…
heartbreak loneliness memory and photographs
Mercury Rev
A driving, hypnotic song built almost entirely on repetition, tracking a headlong romance the narrator already knows is doomed.…
doomed romance velocity and recklessness impermanence
The Beach Boys
A teenage summer romance is revisited a year later, but the narrator has learned to guard himself against the sting of…
seasonal romance emotional self-protection adolescent inconstancy
Ella Fitzgerald
Ella Fitzgerald's reading of this holiday standard is pure surface pleasure: an invitation to a winter courtship ride rendered…
winter romance togetherness seasonal nostalgia
Grandaddy
A loose, dreamlike catalog of small-town wreckage - shut-down factories, joyriding teens, a decrepit limousine, a spray-painted…
small-town decay aimlessness and boredom mechanization versus nature
Dire Straits
A hazy, nocturnal recollection of teenage romance staged in a dockland landscape of quays, stairways, and coasters. The song…
nostalgia working-class romance memory and place
Anita O’Day
A jazz standard from the American Songbook, this is a meditation on love as both blessing and disorienting force, addressed…
love as mystery surrender longing
Little Feat
A road song built from trucker slang and rock-and-roll swagger, this track fuses the mythology of American highway travel with a…
restlessness and freedom the romance of the American road sexual bravado
George Jones
A novelty-tinged story song built on a bait-and-switch: an old man's admiring description of a car turns out to be a description…
nostalgia lost youth double meaning/wordplay