Conway Twitty
A mid-80s Conway Twitty ballad about a long, committed relationship that still looks and feels like a new romance to outsiders.…
enduring passion misperception vs. reality domestic intimacy
The Pretenders
A giddy, slightly defensive love song built around a single repeated plea: don't misread my erratic behavior as indifference.…
infatuation and its contradictions fear of being misunderstood impermanence versus commitment
Nirvana
A deceptively bright, melodic pop song sitting incongruously on Nirvana's noisiest early album, this track works through the…
ambivalent intimacy emotional withholding self-interest disguised as affection
Whitney Houston
A dance-pop track built around uncontrollable physical attraction rather than romance in any tender sense. The narrator catalogs…
obsessive desire loss of self-control infatuation vs. commitment
Joan Armatrading
A mid-career Armatrading song that tracks a casual arrangement tipping into real feeling, while the narrator insists on honesty…
transition from casual to committed love honesty as a precondition for intimacy gossip and reputation undermining trust
The Replacements
A scrappy, two-minute blast of teenage bravado that barely holds together as a song, which is the point: Westerberg sketches a…
adolescent defiance self-destructive pride desire disguised as indifference
Percy Sledge
A soul ballad that describes, almost clinically, the self-destructive logic of male devotion: a man surrenders judgment, money,…
obsessive devotion self-deception in love sacrifice and loss of self
Soccer Mommy
A narrator watches a girl named Mary, admired for her coldness and control over boys, and confesses envy rather than romantic…
queer longing disguised as envy female power and coldness teenage infatuation
The xx
A duet-style track built around the exhilaration and risk of falling into infatuation, with the two vocalists trading lines that…
infatuation vulnerability risk-taking in love
Amy Winehouse
This is Amy Winehouse's reading of the Goffin-King standard, a spare torch-song reading of a question that has been asked in pop…
romantic uncertainty the gap between physical intimacy and commitment vulnerability disguised as directness
Rickie Lee Jones
A gossipy, jazz-inflected shaggy-dog story about a friend whose sudden weirdness turns out to be the classic symptoms of a…
infatuation and its telltale signs street-level bohemian romance gossip and small-town social detective work
Jefferson Airplane
A breezy, repetitive love-at-first-sight song built almost entirely around a single question addressed to a companion as both…
infatuation shared observation inarticulacy
Blondie
A cover of a 1963 girl-group style bubblegum tune, reworked by Blondie into a knowing new wave valentine that trades on…
infatuation surface pleasure and artifice girl-group nostalgia
X
This is X's version of the garage-rock standard, stripped down and repeated almost to the point of incantation. Rather than…
infatuation desire uncertainty about love
Ride
A straightforward infatuation song built almost entirely from one refrain, tracking the dizzy, repetitive logic of early…
infatuation loss of control idealized future
Mariah Carey
A buoyant celebration of infatuation that lives entirely in the space between attraction and consummation, where the pleasure…
infatuation escapism desire and daydream
The Stooges
Little Doll is a two-minute blues-punk grind built on a simple crush and a raw, repeated command to move. Its lyric barely…
infatuation objectification desire vs. distance
Anita O’Day
This is Anita O'Day's vocal-jazz treatment of the Fats Waller standard, a breezy declaration of infatuation built entirely on…
infatuation sweetness as metaphor public admiration
Laura Nyro
An early Laura Nyro composition built almost entirely on sensation rather than narrative, this song uses the image of fire and…
infatuation loss of control transcendence through desire
Billie Eilish
A hushed debut single built around a single extended metaphor: a pair of eyes compared to the ocean, standing in for the…
infatuation vulnerability fear of intimacy
Lupe Fiasco
A straightforward pop-rap infatuation song in which Lupe Fiasco uses the language of songcraft itself—hooks, choruses, verses—as…
infatuation obsession music as metaphor for love
Michael Jackson
A buoyant, physically driven declaration of infatuation built almost entirely around a single hook that gets repeated, echoed,…
infatuation desire and pursuit possessiveness
Madonna
A buoyant early-80s dance-pop confection that turns a childhood wishing-star rhyme into an adult love song, celebrating…
infatuation luck and fate celestial imagery
B.B. King
This is a plainspoken love-and-commitment song built almost entirely on conditional statements, trading the verse-chorus…
conditional love mutual understanding commitment
Jamiroquai
A breezy declaration of infatuation built around a single repeated hook, this track trades narrative complexity for pure…
infatuation the ineffability of attraction romantic devotion
A slow-dance ballad built around a single moment: crossing a crowded room toward someone and closing the distance between…
infatuation vulnerability physical desire
George Jones
A simple, direct marriage proposal set to music, built almost entirely from a single repeated plea. George Jones uses plain,…
romantic devotion commitment companionship
Musiq Soulchild
A neo-soul love song built almost entirely around a single declaration of devotion, sung directly to a partner the narrator…
devotion reassurance longing
A love song built almost entirely on declaration rather than incident: a narrator confesses an all-consuming attachment, admits…
infatuation self-aware sentimentality gratitude/luck
Bad Company
This is a straightforward arena-rock love song built around a hardened man admitting he's been softened by devotion. The title…
surrendered toughness domesticated masculinity gratitude in love
Humble Pie
A short, almost skeletal love song built around the old rock-and-roll conceit of the heart skipping a beat, borrowed and…
infatuation the body as evidence of love repetition and ritual
Beirut
A brief, deceptively cheerful pop song built almost entirely from a wordless vocal hook, with a single quatrain of lyric…
infatuation uncertainty urgency
Curtis Mayfield
A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…
romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship
Disclosure
Tenderly is an early, largely instrumental-minded Disclosure track where a handful of vocal phrases are looped and reconfigured…
infatuation obsession as repetition minimalism
Queen
A slight, groove-driven vignette about attraction to someone effortlessly stylish and self-possessed, filtered through…
infatuation cool detachment vs. desire surface style over substance
Lauryn Hill
This is Lauryn Hill's rendition of the 1967 Frankie Valli classic, placed on The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill as a brief,…
infatuation gratitude vulnerability
Vince Gill
A country love song built around the physical panic of infatuation rather than its resolution. The narrator never gets to…
unrequited longing vulnerability idealization
Deep Purple
This is a straightforward garage-pop cover turned hard-rock workout, built almost entirely from nonsense syllables and a simple…
obsessive infatuation powerlessness in love physical desire
Misfits
This is a straightforward horror-punk character piece: a killer disguised as a scarecrow narrates his own nocturnal murders,…
disguise and concealment rural horror serial murder as performance
A reassurance song built around a simple call-and-response device: the narrator anticipates every doubt his partner might raise…
reassurance and commitment trust after past hurt emotional constancy