Results for “double standards in relationships”

Songs

Devil's Gonna Git You

Bessie Smith

A blues warning delivered as a curse: the narrator threatens a philandering partner with damnation, using the devil as a…

infidelity and betrayal moral reckoning female assertiveness

Doo Wop (That Thing)

Lauryn Hill

Lauryn Hill delivers a two-part sermon on sex, self-respect, and modern relationship dysfunction, addressing women in the first…

sexual double standards nostalgia for a simpler past personal responsibility

Follow Your Arrow

Kacey Musgraves

A catalog of no-win social judgments builds into a plainspoken anthem for living by one's own compass rather than trying to…

double standards sexual and social freedom religious hypocrisy

Rockin' Daddy

Howlin’ Wolf

A boastful, sexually charged blues in which the singer claims mastery over both the physical act of "rocking" a partner and the…

sexual bravado transactional relationships masculine reputation

Snooze

SZA

SZA turns devotion into a kind of hyper-vigilance, pledging extreme loyalty and even violence for a lover while the…

obsessive devotion insecurity masked as confidence loyalty and self-sacrifice

No Room In Frame

Death Cab for Cutie

A breakup song built around the image of a photograph's frame—one person edged out as the other steps into visibility and…

dissolution of a relationship fame/visibility eclipsing intimacy memory and forgetting

Skinny Love

Bon Iver

A raw, fragmentary breakup address built from accusation and self-recrimination in equal measure, sung to a fading relationship…

dissolution of a relationship emotional exhaustion blame and self-blame

Damaged Goods

Gang of Four

Gang of Four fuse the language of romantic breakup with the language of consumer transactions, treating a relationship like a…

commodification of relationships alienation desire vs. disgust

Porcelain

Moby

A hushed breakup meditation built from fragments rather than a full narrative, "Porcelain" uses the blur between sleep and…

dissolution of a relationship guilt and self-doubt the porousness of dreams and waking life

Beast Of Burden

The Rolling Stones

A weary declaration of devotion dressed up as a refusal: the singer insists he won't be exploited or taken for granted, even as…

emotional labor in relationships self-worth and insecurity devotion disguised as protest

Could You Be the One?

Hüsker Dü

A weary interrogation of a relationship on the edge of collapse, built almost entirely from a single repeated question and a…

emotional exhaustion concealment and self-deception ambivalence in love

All The Good Times

Angel Olsen

A breakup song that refuses the genre's usual apology, opting instead for flat, exhausted clarity about a relationship that has…

emotional exhaustion the end of a long relationship refusal of guilt

Since I Fell for You

Gladys Knight

A slow, torch-song lament about loving someone who no longer returns the feeling, sung with the weary authority of a performer…

unrequited love emotional entrapment regret and self-knowledge

I Know the End

Phoebe Bridgers

A road-trip through American landscapes and personal apocalypse, where the singer's private exhaustion with a relationship and a…

apocalypse (personal and national) homesickness and rootlessness burnout and exhaustion in relationships

"5150"

Van Halen

"5150" is Sammy Hagar's debut lead vocal for Van Halen, a mid-tempo rock ballad about the exhausting compromises of a…

compromise and imbalance in relationships emotional exhaustion instability

Love Galore

SZA

Love Galore is SZA's clipped, cool-voiced meditation on wanting intimacy without wanting the vulnerability that comes with it.…

emotional detachment as self-protection transactional intimacy power and control in casual relationships

The Space Between

Roxy Music

A minimalist, almost mantra-like meditation on relational distance, where Bryan Ferry reduces a whole failing romance to a…

emotional distance relationship drift repetition as anxiety

Hard-Core Troubadour

Steve Earle

A wry character sketch of an unrepentant romantic drifter told from the outside, by a narrator warning a woman about the man's…

romantic recidivism performance vs. sincerity the myth of the outlaw lover

Back To Black

Amy Winehouse

A breakup song built around one stark image: black as the color of mourning, addiction, and emotional shutdown all at once. Amy…

heartbreak and abandonment addiction as emotional metaphor self-destruction

Under the Pressure

The War on Drugs

An eight-minute opener that treats emotional exhaustion as a kind of weather system, with Adam Granduciel repeating fragments of…

burnout and psychological strain instability in relationships disillusionment with promised futures

Respect

Aretha Franklin

Aretha Franklin's reworking of a song originally about a working man asking for domestic peace turns it into a declaration of…

self-respect reciprocity in relationships female autonomy

The Stranger

Billy Joel

Billy Joel builds a meditation on the hidden selves everyone conceals from lovers, using the whistled melody and shifting moods…

hidden identity betrayal in relationships self-deception

Pale Shelter

Tears for Fears

A song about emotional withholding, built as a plea disguised as a diagnosis. The narrator keeps demanding certainty and love…

emotional neglect need for control insecurity in relationships

Secret

Seal

Seal builds this track almost entirely from a single confession — that the speaker is a hidden part of someone else's life —…

secrecy and concealment possessive love mutual belonging

Be Sweet

Japanese Breakfast

A synth-pop breakup plea dressed up as a demand rather than a lament: the narrator wants proof of good faith from an unreliable…

conditional love self-deception desire versus doubt

Hate to Lose Your Lovin'

Little Feat

A wry breakup narrative that keeps undercutting its own heartbreak with comic self-interest. The narrator confronts a cheating…

infidelity and betrayal performed heartbreak vs. real indifference serial romance

Road Head

Japanese Breakfast

A terse, cinematic vignette about a roadside sexual encounter framed as an act of desperation rather than intimacy, set against…

desire and desperation emotional numbness youth and recklessness

Nasty Gal

Betty Davis

Betty Davis takes the insults an ex has thrown at her -- witch, alley cat, dirty dog -- and turns them into a badge of honor,…

sexual autonomy reclaiming slurs female desire vs. respectability

Ms. Fat Booty

Mos Def

A narrative rap unfolding like a short film in three scenes, tracking a pursuit-and-fallout romance with a woman the narrator…

desire versus discernment the performance of masculinity and vulnerability cynicism eroded by intimacy

Saturnz Barz

Gorillaz

A collaboration between Gorillaz and Jamaican dancehall artist Popcaan, the track fuses a patois-inflected verse about hard-won…

survival and upward mobility fame's emptiness isolation within relationships

Motion Sickness

Phoebe Bridgers

A breakup song built on the whiplash of contradictory feelings toward an ex who wronged her, mixing bitterness, residual…

emotional ambivalence power imbalance in relationships toxic nostalgia

Think

Aretha Franklin

A blunt, funky demand for a partner to reckon with how they're treating the singer, built almost entirely around one imperative…

self-respect in relationships freedom and autonomy emotional exhaustion

Be Good (Lion's Song)

Gregory Porter

Gregory Porter builds an extended allegory of romantic self-diminishment around the image of a caged lion taming itself for a…

self-suppression for love power and taming unrequited or unequal affection

Teenage FBI

Guided by Voices

A compact power-pop confession about being trailed by an old, adolescent version of oneself. The narrator can't explain why…

arrested development loss of self-control in relationships surveillance of the self

Water Curses

Animal Collective

A dreamlike wish-song built around water as an image of fluidity, ease, and self-erasure, drifting through loosely connected…

desire for formlessness/transformation mortality and impermanence creativity and artistic longing

Lost Your Head Blues

Bessie Smith

Bessie Smith delivers a blues complaint about a lover who has gotten money and forgotten who stood by him when he had none. It's…

betrayal after success female self-respect economic power shifting a relationship

HUMBLE.

Kendrick Lamar

HUMBLE. is a swaggering, almost gleeful takedown of fakery in the industry and in culture at large, delivered by a narrator who…

authenticity vs. artifice wealth and status misogynoir/beauty standards critique

My Moon My Man

Feist

Feist builds a woozy, circling meditation on emotional instability out of a single central image: an unreliable moon that…

cyclical instability dependency and vulnerability emotional weather/lunar imagery

Winter Wonderland

Eurythmics

This is a cover of the 1934 standard, recorded for a mid-1980s charity Christmas compilation, and it plays the song fairly…

young romance seasonal escapism imaginative play

Autumn Leaves

Chet Baker

This is an instrumental reading of a standard, so the analysis works from title, genre convention, and Chet Baker's established…

seasonal change loss and impermanence romantic nostalgia