Results for “elusiveness and withdrawal”

Songs

Bleed to Love Her

Fleetwood Mac

A quiet, aching meditation on a love that keeps retreating even as it beckons, sung by someone who has decided that pain is…

romantic devotion as endurance elusiveness and withdrawal sacrifice

Window Seat

Erykah Badu

A meditation on wanting to disappear and be missed at the same time, built around the image of flying solo on a plane. Badu…

individuality vs. belonging fame and exposure emotional withdrawal

Something In The Way

Nirvana

A hushed, almost inert closer to Nevermind that trades the album's loud-quiet-loud dynamics for a single sustained murmur. The…

isolation destitution moral numbness

What Ever Happened?

The Strokes

An opening-track statement of exhaustion and detachment, "What Ever Happened?" pairs a jittery, almost panicked vocal delivery…

desire for erasure/anonymity romantic withdrawal cultural anxiety and authenticity

Please Take

Wire

A blunt, almost domestic-scale confrontation song built around one sustained image of betrayal-as-stabbing, delivered with a…

betrayal complicity disgust with manipulation

when the party’s over

James Blake

This is a cover of Billie Eilish's confessional breakup song, and James Blake's version leans into its bare, aching quiet.…

self-sabotage emotional withdrawal toxic intimacy

She

Elvis Costello

This is Costello's recording of a song originally written by Charles Aznavour, best known in English through Herbert Kretzmer's…

the elusiveness of the beloved identity as multiplicity devotion despite uncertainty

Chase the Tear

Portishead

A brief, incantatory piece built from fragmentary phrases rather than a clear narrative, tracking a speaker moving between…

shame and self-reckoning emotional withdrawal cyclical time / seasons as feeling

#3

Aphex Twin

An untitled, numbered ambient piece from Aphex Twin's largely wordless second Selected Ambient Works volume, this track works…

dissociation interior space repetition and stasis

Carmelita

Warren Zevon

A junkie in a rundown corner of Los Angeles narrates his own decline in a strangely tender, almost comic voice, addressing an…

addiction and withdrawal romantic longing as survival strategy poverty and bureaucracy

Agoraphobia

Deerhunter

Deerhunter turn a mental-health condition into a fantasy of shelter, imagining confinement as safety rather than affliction.…

withdrawal and self-erasure confinement as comfort sensory deprivation

I'd Like to Walk Around In Your Mind

Vashti Bunyan

A quiet, whimsical song about wanting intimate access to someone's inner life while wishing to remain undetected in it. Bunyan…

longing for intimacy the limits of knowing another person playful invasiveness

Cover Me

Bruce Springsteen

A song about withdrawal disguised as a love song: the narrator wants a partner not for passion but as shelter from a world he's…

retreat from a hostile world love as refuge/shelter isolation vs. intimacy

Chained

The xx

A quiet post-mortem on a relationship, sung as a series of unanswerable questions to someone who has already begun to leave. The…

fear of abandonment possessiveness vs. freedom self-blame

Some Kinda Woman

Traffic

A straightforward blues-rock come-on built around infatuation and helplessness in the face of a magnetic, emotionally elusive…

desire and obsession loss of control emotional manipulation

Jesus Was a Cross Maker

Judee Sill

Judee Sill turns a betrayal by a charming, elusive lover into a small theology, comparing him to a Jesus who literally built the…

betrayal and seduction sin and redemption entwined spiritual longing

Kern River

Merle Haggard

A grief-haunted ballad in which a river becomes both the site of love and the site of loss, and the refusal to ever swim it…

grief and loss fear of intimacy after tragedy California working-class geography

It's the End of the World As We Know It (And I Feel Fine)

R.E.M.

A torrent of disconnected images—natural disasters, media noise, Cold War figures, cultural detritus—gets fired off at…

information overload apocalyptic anxiety played as comedy media saturation