Death Cab for Cutie
A breakup song built around the image of a photograph's frame—one person edged out as the other steps into visibility and…
dissolution of a relationship fame/visibility eclipsing intimacy memory and forgetting
Roberta Flack
A slow, hymn-like meditation on falling in love, told through three escalating 'first times' — seeing, kissing, and lying with a…
romantic awakening the sacredness of intimacy time and permanence
Sufjan Stevens
A quiet domestic carol that strips Christmas of all its commercial and decorative trappings and relocates the holiday's meaning…
domestic intimacy anti-consumerism presence versus decoration
Pavement
A loose, digressive song built from non-sequiturs and internal rhyme games that only occasionally resolves into something like…
evasion of intimacy irony versus sincerity pop-cultural detritus
Bill Withers
A quiet plea for a fresh start in a relationship that both partners know is damaged. Withers doesn't argue that the past didn't…
emotional avoidance fragile intimacy hope against evidence
David Bowie
A dramatized radio transmission between mission control and an astronaut becomes an extended metaphor for detachment and…
isolation fame and alienation dissociation
Grandaddy
A slight, hazy love song built almost entirely out of anti-events: no plot, no conflict, just a wish to be near someone and do…
companionship over accomplishment fear of losing someone through neglect romanticizing inertia
Kate Bush
A song about the gulf of misunderstanding between two lovers, imagined as something so vast it could only be closed by a…
miscommunication in intimacy empathy and its limits bargaining with fate
Sharon Van Etten
A quietly seething breakup song in which the narrator sees through a partner's self-serving reassurances and names the pattern…
emotional self-protection disillusionment in love fading intimacy
Mos Def
A narrative rap unfolding like a short film in three scenes, tracking a pursuit-and-fallout romance with a woman the narrator…
desire versus discernment the performance of masculinity and vulnerability cynicism eroded by intimacy
Roxy Music
A deadpan monologue delivered by a consumer trapped inside his own showroom lifestyle, who eventually confesses to owning an…
consumerism and alienation artificiality vs intimacy suburban/domestic satire
Guided By Voices
A cryptic, riddling GBV track that uses Fats Domino's real-life survival of Hurricane Katrina as an emblem of resilience, then…
survival and resilience flood/water imagery as threat and purification fame versus obscurity
Talib Kweli
Talib Kweli uses the physical sensation of depth—gravity, fire, ice, the ocean floor—as a metaphor for both emotional lows and…
authenticity vs. celebrity struggle and resilience artistic integrity
Leonard Cohen
A meditation on the pull between transcendent, near-mystical intimacy and the noisy, transactional churn of ordinary life. The…
sacred vs. profane transience of ecstasy spiritual longing
The Strokes
An opening-track statement of exhaustion and detachment, "What Ever Happened?" pairs a jittery, almost panicked vocal delivery…
desire for erasure/anonymity romantic withdrawal cultural anxiety and authenticity
Gang of Four
Gang of Four fuse the language of romantic breakup with the language of consumer transactions, treating a relationship like a…
commodification of relationships alienation desire vs. disgust
Broken Social Scene
This is Broken Social Scene's rendition of Joy Division's 1980 classic, recorded for the soundtrack of The Time Traveler's Wife,…
romantic disintegration emotional stasis guilt and self-recrimination
Common
Common builds a triumphant victory-lap track around a sampled ELO hook, using the sky as a running metaphor for ascent,…
ambition realized spiritual gratitude celebrity and success