Results for “frustration and helplessness”

Songs

Helplessness Blues

Fleet Foxes

A young narrator wrestles with the individualism he was raised on, wondering whether meaning comes from being special or from…

individualism vs. collectivism disillusionment with authority search for purpose

Why Is It So Hard

Talk Talk

A short, plaintive B-side from Talk Talk's early-to-mid period, this song is built almost entirely from apology and…

emotional avoidance self-reproach communication breakdown

Olé

Pearl Jam

A short, chant-driven track that treats the exclamation "Olé" as a stand-in for helpless resignation in the face of overwhelming…

information overload helplessness desensitization to violence

Once I Had a Woman

Jimi Hendrix

This is a raw, improvisatory blues lament built almost entirely on vamped repetition rather than a finished lyric. Hendrix works…

loss and longing obsessive devotion the blues tradition of the departed woman

Are You Alright?

Lucinda Williams

A plainspoken, almost obsessive plea directed at someone who has vanished without explanation. The song works less through…

loss and disappearance unanswered longing anxiety about a loved one

Run, Run, Run

Ann Peebles

Ann Peebles delivers a frustrated ultimatum to a partner stuck in aimless repetition, warning that her patience is running out.…

frustration with stagnation failing communication ultimatum and impending departure

Traffic Jam

James Taylor

A commuter's rant against gridlock turns, almost by accident, into a joke about mortality and then a flicker of environmental…

urban frustration mortality played for laughs environmental unease

Quizás, Quizás, Quizás

Nat King Cole

A classic Cuban bolero of romantic frustration, in which a lover demands a straight answer about the future of the relationship…

romantic indecision frustration and waiting time slipping away

Time's Up

Buzzcocks

A jittery catalogue of mundane waiting -- supermarket queues, phone calls, cigarettes -- becomes a comic study in erotic…

impatience and waiting sexual frustration consumer banality

Misty

Ella Fitzgerald

A standard-issue torch song from the Great American Songbook, "Misty" describes the disorientation of falling helplessly in…

helpless infatuation surrender of control sensory overwhelm

This Woman's Work

Maxwell

Maxwell's Unplugged reading of Kate Bush's ballad turns a song about a man helplessly watching his wife through a dangerous…

helplessness in the face of mortality regret over words and gestures withheld gendered division of labor and pain

Night

Bill Callahan

A short, incantatory piece built around a single image—a door that both conceals and contains someone or something unknowable.…

mystery of death or absence the limits of knowledge ritual and repetition

Better Man

Pearl Jam

A quietly devastating character study of a woman trapped in a stalled, likely unhappy relationship, told entirely from the…

romantic inertia self-deception domestic entrapment

Meat Grinder

Madvillain

Meat Grinder is a woozy, off-kilter showcase for MF DOOM's dense internal rhyme, wrapped around a strange recurring image of…

surreal domesticity/confinement hustler bravado alter-ego mythmaking

No Particular Place to Go

Mos Def

A breezy account of a teenage joyride that stalls on an absurd, deflating detail: a jammed seatbelt that thwarts the narrator's…

adolescent desire freedom and mobility comic frustration

Save Me

Nina Simone

A woman in the grip of a bad romance turns her plea into a comic-desperate cry for rescue, invoking cartoon superheroes…

romantic entrapment self-sacrifice in love desperation and helplessness

I'm Goin' Down

Bruce Springsteen

A breezy, almost bubblegum-pop arrangement carries a pretty deflating story about a relationship that's cooled into…

romantic frustration mismatched desire emotional deflation

Carry the Zero

Built to Spill

A guitarist-narrator watches a relationship or friendship unravel through the metaphor of broken, uncountable pieces and faulty…

fractured identity failed reconciliation self-consciousness and surveillance

Bonzo Goes to Bitburg

Ramones

A furious, sardonic protest song written after President Reagan's 1985 visit to a German military cemetery at Bitburg, which…

political complicity historical memory and the Holocaust media disillusionment

Dry Spell

Kacey Musgraves

A comic, unapologetically horny country song about a woman counting off the days since her last sexual encounter, using rural…

sexual frustration female desire and agency rural/country signifiers as innuendo

Monkey

George Michael

A pop-funk plea from a partner watching a lover slide back into a destructive habit, with the habit personified as a rival for…

addiction as rival codependency frustrated love

Casimir Pulaski Day

Sufjan Stevens

A young narrator recounts the slow death of a girl he loves from bone cancer, intercutting scenes of adolescent intimacy with…

mortality and illness adolescent love faith and doubt

Magic Dance

David Bowie

A propulsive novelty-funk number written for the film Labyrinth, in which a chant-like spell is cast to soothe a crying infant…

childhood fear transformation through play ritual and incantation

So Emotional

Whitney Houston

A dance-pop track built around uncontrollable physical attraction rather than romance in any tender sense. The narrator catalogs…

obsessive desire loss of self-control infatuation vs. commitment

We Want the Airwaves

Ramones

A blunt manifesto-as-anthem in which the Ramones demand radio play for rock 'n' roll, framing corporate gatekeeping as an enemy…

media gatekeeping artistic frustration working-class impatience

No Shoes

John Lee Hooker

A stark, first-person account of poverty rendered in the repetitive, incantatory style of Delta blues. Hooker strips the song…

poverty desperation fatherhood and helplessness

About the Weather

Magazine

A song about emotional unpredictability disguised as a meteorological report, where the weather becomes a running metaphor for a…

emotional volatility detachment as coping mechanism control and helplessness

That's When I Reach For My Revolver

Mission of Burma

A post-punk anthem about disillusionment and the impulse toward violent or drastic rupture as a response to betrayed idealism.…

disillusionment loss of innocence generational inheritance

Another Saturday Night

Sam Cooke

A breezy, self-mocking complaint from a young man stuck in a new town with cash in his pocket and no date on a Saturday night.…

loneliness displacement romantic frustration

I Want Your Sex, Pts. 1 & 2

George Michael

George Michael turns a single, blunt demand into a sustained argument about desire, patience, and monogamy, dressing up a simple…

sexual desire and frustration persuasion and rhetoric monogamy versus promiscuity

Two Left Feet

Richard Thompson

A jaunty novelty jump-blues number in which a narrator affectionately but insistently mocks his partner's terrible dancing,…

comic frustration in love physical imperfection as running gag performance and public embarrassment

Under Pressure

Queen

A collaboration between Queen and David Bowie built around a rolling bass riff, the song treats societal pressure as a physical…

collective anxiety urban alienation the erosion of love as a value

Makes No Sense At All

Hüsker Dü

A pop-punk blast of exasperation aimed at someone whose contradictions and self-inflation have stopped registering as anything…

frustration with a partner's inconsistency emotional exhaustion refusal to engage further

Righteously

Lucinda Williams

A woman lays out terms for a lover who confuses aggression with masculinity, insisting that tenderness and respect are the real…

masculinity and its performance sexual respect and reciprocity desire coexisting with frustration

I Hate U

SZA

SZA lays out a relationship curdled by resentment and dependency, where love and hatred are barely distinguishable and both…

toxic codependency ambivalence between love and hate sleeplessness and rumination

You Go to My Head

Cassandra Wilson

This is Cassandra Wilson's 2015 reading of the 1938 Coots/Gillespie standard, delivered as part of a tribute to Billie Holiday.…

intoxication as metaphor for desire self-awareness versus helplessness obsession

A Certain Girl

Warren Zevon

This is a straight-ahead cover of the Ernie K-Doe R&B classic, built almost entirely on a call-and-response tease between a…

unrequited longing secrecy as flirtation stuck-in-the-friend-zone frustration

Some Kinda Woman

Traffic

A straightforward blues-rock come-on built around infatuation and helplessness in the face of a magnetic, emotionally elusive…

desire and obsession loss of control emotional manipulation

Spitting Off the Edge of the World

Yeah Yeah Yeahs

A climate-grief anthem that frames ecological collapse as an inherited catastrophe, addressed both to a failing planet and to a…

climate anxiety intergenerational blame powerlessness

Grown Ocean

Fleet Foxes

The closing track of Helplessness Blues describes a visionary dream-state of peace and permanence, set against a waking world of…

dreams versus waking life longing for peace impermanence and mortality