Results for “gendered condescension”

Songs

You're Lost Little Girl

The Doors

A short, hypnotic piece built almost entirely from repetition, this song stages a男 narrator's address to a woman he calls lost,…

identity and self-knowledge gendered condescension seduction as control

Scorn

Portishead

A weary meditation on gender roles and the exhaustion of performing femininity as a game, "Scorn" pleads for authentic…

gender roles emotional exhaustion authenticity vs performance

Androgynous

The Replacements

A quietly tender ballad from a famously loud punk band, this song imagines two gender-nonconforming lovers with a gentleness…

gender nonconformity acceptance and tolerance love as constancy

Kool Thing

Sonic Youth

A satirical dialogue between a rock star's ego and a skeptical female voice, "Kool Thing" stages a flirtation that curdles into…

gender and power celebrity worship racial politics

Golden Gal

Animal Collective

A song built around a half-real, half-mediated female icon glimpsed through screens and reviews, with the narrator working out…

celebrity and mediated desire gender and sexuality fandom as devotion

Lola

The Kinks

A wide-eyed young narrator recounts a night at a Soho club where he meets a striking, ambiguous figure named Lola, and the song…

gender ambiguity sexual awakening urban nightlife

Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da

The Beatles

A bouncy, deliberately artificial ska-pop tale of a market-stall trader and a band singer who fall in love, marry, and settle…

everyday romance domesticity gender roles

I Wanna Be Your Joey Ramone

Sleater‐Kinney

Sleater-Kinney takes the fan-idolatry that surrounds male rock stars and flips the gender of the fantasy, imagining a female…

gender and rock stardom fandom and desire female agency

Doo Wop (That Thing)

Lauryn Hill

Lauryn Hill delivers a two-part sermon on sex, self-respect, and modern relationship dysfunction, addressing women in the first…

sexual double standards nostalgia for a simpler past personal responsibility

In the Mood

Talib Kweli

A loose-limbed party track built around braggadocio and seduction, where Talib Kweli shifts between flirtatious come-ons, boasts…

seduction and courtship artistic superiority authenticity vs. performance

If I Were

Vashti Bunyan

A brief, riddling song built entirely on a hypothetical separation, weighing two possible reactions to loss against each other:…

conditional love fear of abandonment self-protection through detachment

Do You Really Want Me (Show Respect)

Robyn

A teenage-pop relationship anthem from Robyn's mid-90s debut era that frames romantic worth as a transaction of effort and…

respect in relationships gender expectations conditional love

The Model

Kraftwerk

A deadpan, synth-driven character sketch of a fashion model, delivered with the same flat affect Kraftwerk applies to machines…

commodification of beauty surveillance and consumption media and celebrity

(I Can't Get No) Satisfaction

Cat Power

Cat Power strips the Rolling Stones' garage-rock anthem of its swagger and turns it into something hushed, sad, and almost…

alienation commercial saturation exhaustion

Baby It's Cold Outside

Ella Fitzgerald

A duet built entirely on a woman making excuses to leave and a man supplying reasons to keep her there, all while a blizzard…

seduction and resistance social propriety vs desire persuasion and pressure

Woman

Cat Power

Cat Power turns a single word into a chant of self-definition, using repetition rather than narrative to insist on a selfhood…

self-definition independence from judgment recovery and transformation

This Town Gets Around

Margo Price

Margo Price surveys the transactional culture of Nashville's music industry from the vantage of a newcomer who has already been…

music industry exploitation gender and power authenticity vs. commerce

The Joke

Brandi Carlile

Brandi Carlile addresses two vulnerable young people—a boy who doesn't fit masculine norms and a girl navigating a world still…

marginalization and difference gender expectations resilience

Matty Groves

Fairport Convention

This is the Fairport Convention electric-folk arrangement of the ancient English/Scottish ballad about adultery, betrayal, and…

class inequality adultery and its consequences honor and vengeance

The House of the Rising Sun

Nina Simone

Nina Simone's reading of this traditional ballad restores the older female-narrator version of the song, in which a woman looks…

ruin and regret intergenerational warning fatalism

Suggestion

Fugazi

Fugazi's early anthem against street harassment is delivered from a shifting first-person voice, moving between a woman's direct…

street harassment gender and power complicity and bystander silence

Louisiana 1927

Randy Newman

A plainspoken ballad about the Great Mississippi Flood of 1927, sung from inside the disaster rather than about it from a…

natural disaster regional neglect class and condescension

Gold Digger

Kanye West Tribute Band

A Ray Charles sample and a party-ready hook frame a much darker set of verses about money, sex, race, and resentment between men…

gender and money distrust and betrayal black masculinity and provider anxiety

Where Did You Sleep Last Night? (Black Girl)

Lead Belly

An old Southern folk ballad, filtered through Lead Belly's version, that turns a simple question about infidelity into something…

betrayal and suspicion death and unexplained violence isolation/exile

Thin Line Between Love and Hate

Annie Lennox

A domestic warning delivered as slow-burning soul: a woman absorbs quiet humiliation night after night until patience curdles…

repressed anger domestic betrayal the limits of patience

Outside Woman Blues

Cream

This is Cream's electrified cover of a pre-war country blues (originally by Blind Joe Reynolds), turned into a slow-burning…

sexual jealousy infidelity folk wisdom/proverb

Candy Says

The Velvet Underground

A quiet, first-person portrait of alienation from one's own body and self, sung through the voice of a character named Candy,…

body dysphoria alienation from self longing for escape

Oops! I Did It Again

Richard Thompson

Richard Thompson's version strips a bubblegum pop hit down to voice and guitar, exposing lyrics about romantic manipulation that…

manipulation dressed as innocence performance versus sincerity gender and blame

Little Mascara

The Replacements

A song about a woman stuck in a stalled, disappointing marriage, told by an outside voice that's half sympathetic and half…

domestic disappointment emotional repression gendered expectations

Dancing Barefoot

Patti Smith

A dance-trance hymn to erotic and spiritual surrender, where a woman's devotion to a man is described in the third person as…

erotic devotion as religion loss of self through ecstasy gender and idealization

Glory Box

John Martyn

This is John Martyn's reworking of Portishead's 'Glory Box', stripped of its trip-hop menace and turned into a weary, aching…

exhaustion with games surrender to desire gender roles and reversal

Madame George

Van Morrison

An impressionistic, nearly nine-minute elegy built around a single scene: a gathering in a Belfast back room presided over by a…

loss of innocence ambiguous identity and gender nostalgia for place

No Omega

Eric B.

A boastful battle-rap centerpiece from Rakim (credited to Eric B. as the duo's name) built around the conceit that his rhyme…

invincibility and mastery endlessness/infinity battle rap dominance

Put It Right Here (Or Keep It Out There)

Bessie Smith

Bessie Smith delivers an ultimatum blues to a freeloading lover, dressing up a blunt economic demand in barnyard comedy and…

economic independence sexual and domestic reciprocity female autonomy

Beethoven (I Love To Listen)

Eurythmics

A propulsive, largely nonsensical dance-pop chant built around the fetishized repetition of a single composer's name,…

obsessive repetition performance and artifice gendered desire and control

Treat Her Like a Lady

The Temptations

A mid-80s Temptations single that reworks old-fashioned courtship etiquette into a slick, upbeat pitch. The narrator presents…

chivalry and gender roles nostalgia for traditional courtship masculine self-presentation

Soon the New Day

Talib Kweli

A club-and-nightlife narrative that follows the mating rituals of a night out, mapping the performance, pretense, and…

casual sex and disposability performance and masquerade gender dynamics and predation

You and I

Betty Davis

A slow, confessional ballad in which Betty Davis strips away the funk-rock swagger of her usual persona to admit vulnerability…

emotional vulnerability the gap between maturity and desire dependency versus independence

The Lady Is a Tramp

Frank Sinatra

A Rodgers and Hart standard in which every socially disreputable trait ascribed to the title character turns out, on inspection,…

class satire nonconformity irony of reputation

At Home He's a Tourist

Gang of Four

A clipped, funk-inflected post-punk track that treats leisure, culture-consumption, and sexual routine as forms of alienated…

alienation under capitalism commodification of leisure and sex self-improvement as anxiety