Solange
A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…
burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political
Guided by Voices
A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…
self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication
Loretta Lynn
A late-career declaration of resilience, this song has Lynn taking stock of a long, hard-won life and refusing to concede any…
resilience aging and identity working-class pride
Magazine
Magazine's version of the Sly and the Family Stone song strips the original's funk exuberance down to something clipped and…
identity and self-possession violence and threat alienation from social gathering
Kate Bush
Kate Bush tells a compact fable of a wife who sets a trap for her own marriage by inventing a mysterious alter ego, only to…
jealousy and self-sabotage disguise and identity the decay of romantic feeling
A compact power-pop confession about being trailed by an old, adolescent version of oneself. The narrator can't explain why…
arrested development loss of self-control in relationships surveillance of the self
SZA
SZA turns a breakup confession into a deadpan murder fantasy, using the exaggerated violence of the title as a vehicle for…
obsessive love jealousy denial and self-deception
Emmylou Harris
A mother's warning becomes a hard-won personal confession, as the narrator traces her own failures to heed advice about…
inherited wisdom moral compromise self-possession versus loss of self
David Bowie
A restless self-portrait of an artist who treats identity as provisional, staged against a generational standoff between an…
self-reinvention generational conflict impermanence
Chaka Khan
A meditation on jealousy and reassurance, sung by a partner who has just been told about some flirtation or attention from an…
jealousy possessiveness self-assurance
De La Soul
"Eye Know" is De La Soul's sunniest love song, built on a Steely Dan sample and playful Daisy Age slang. Both Posdnuos and…
courtship and seduction wordplay as intimacy group identity and self-naming
Nirvana
A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…
self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame
Mercury Rev
A hazy, druggy fable about pursuit and containment, where sunlit imagery of seduction and pleasure keeps curdling into images of…
intoxication and altered perception freedom versus entrapment instability of the self
Sharon Van Etten
This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…
self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection
OutKast
A two-verse-plus-hook showcase where Big Boi and André 3000 each stake out their identity as outsiders within their own city and…
regional pride and specificity outsider/alien identity self-improvement and discipline
The National
A song about the numbing conformity of adult professional life, addressed in second person to someone (and by extension…
conformity self-alienation loss of innocence
Laura Marling
A ritualistic breakup song that treats an ex-lover, or an old version of the self, as an intruding spirit to be exorcised.…
exorcism of desire boundary-setting self-possession
Elliott Smith
A short, corrosive account of a relationship built on performance and self-deception, delivered in Elliott Smith's flat,…
self-deception toxic intimacy identity dissolution
Echo & the Bunnymen
A jubilant, oddly triumphant piece of nonsense-poetry built on nautical and elemental imagery, "Seven Seas" trades linear…
self-mythology transformation catharsis through destruction
The Velvet Underground
A quiet, first-person portrait of alienation from one's own body and self, sung through the voice of a character named Candy,…
body dysphoria alienation from self longing for escape
The War on Drugs
An instrumental-forward, motorik rock track from Lost in the Dream whose lyrics function almost as texture rather than narrative…
emotional distance self-doubt longing
Jason Isbell
A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…
duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self
The Jam
A young, defiant voice pushes back against everyone who ever underestimated him, staking a claim to self-knowledge and…
class resentment and defiance self-education vs institutional judgment youthful independence
A first-person monologue delivered from a position of self-declared abjection, in which the speaker inventories his own…
self-loathing as identity perverse pride alienation
A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…
self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience
Leonard Cohen
A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…
freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self
Daft Punk
A single fragmented phrase is chopped, looped, and reassembled through vocoder into a mantra about relentless productivity and…
labor and productivity machine identity repetition and ritual
Alice in Chains
Junkhead is a first-person monologue delivered from inside addiction, voiced with unsettling contentment rather than confession…
addiction as identity self-justification and denial alienation from mainstream values
The Who
A drink-and-punch-soaked night in London becomes the occasion for a much larger identity crisis, as the narrator wakes…
identity crisis self-destruction and burnout urban alienation
The Cure
A whimsical, slightly unsettled song about fractured self-presentation, built around the conceit of six versions of oneself or…
fragmented identity dishonesty and self-deception romantic multiplicity
Muddy Waters
Muddy Waters restages his own 1955 declaration of manhood as a late-career victory lap, spelling out the word itself to leave no…
masculinity and self-definition aging and vitality racial dignity ('man' vs 'boy')
Lauryn Hill
A meditation on cyclical change and self-determination that doubles as a virtuosic display of rap craft, this track pairs a…
cyclical change and renewal self-empowerment spiritual/religious syncretism
Run-DMC
An early foundational Run-DMC record built almost entirely around boasting: each MC takes a turn establishing his name, his…
braggadocio and self-mythologizing identity and naming hip-hop lineage/crew loyalty
Beastie Boys
A cartoonish spaghetti-Western pastiche in which the three Beastie Boys members appear as characters in their own tall tale,…
mythmaking and self-invention outlaw fantasy adolescent bravado
Common
An early showcase of Common's dense, freestyle-adjacent wordplay, this track is less about narrative than about verbal…
wordplay as identity self-improvement and discipline legal/moral peril
Kris Kristofferson
Kristofferson builds a composite portrait of a road-worn artist figure out of fragments of himself and his musician friends,…
self-destruction and creativity spiritual searching without arrival the cost of the touring musician's life
A hushed, seductive address that turns out to be spoken in the voice of addiction itself, offering comfort, oblivion, and…
addiction as intimate voice self-destruction disguised as tenderness loss of potential
Jethro Tull
A jaunty, loosely-plotted romp through post-war British working-class social life, sketched in vignettes of dance halls,…
class and working-class identity masculine bravado casual cruelty dressed as charm
Gorillaz
A brittle, self-alienated meditation on being watched and misread, built around a narrator who repeatedly defines himself only…
surveillance and misperception emotional numbness/detachment identity as reflection rather than substance
A stripped-down acoustic confession from a narrator who insists on leaving while quietly begging to be brought back. The song…
addiction and self-destruction isolation vs. longing for home guilt and self-recrimination