The Pretenders
A giddy, slightly defensive love song built around a single repeated plea: don't misread my erratic behavior as indifference.…
infatuation and its contradictions fear of being misunderstood impermanence versus commitment
Blondie
A cover of a 1963 girl-group style bubblegum tune, reworked by Blondie into a knowing new wave valentine that trades on…
infatuation surface pleasure and artifice girl-group nostalgia
Mariah Carey
A buoyant celebration of infatuation that lives entirely in the space between attraction and consummation, where the pleasure…
infatuation escapism desire and daydream
The Stooges
Little Doll is a two-minute blues-punk grind built on a simple crush and a raw, repeated command to move. Its lyric barely…
infatuation objectification desire vs. distance
The xx
A duet-style track built around the exhilaration and risk of falling into infatuation, with the two vocalists trading lines that…
infatuation vulnerability risk-taking in love
Michael Jackson
A buoyant, physically driven declaration of infatuation built almost entirely around a single hook that gets repeated, echoed,…
infatuation desire and pursuit possessiveness
Madonna
A buoyant early-80s dance-pop confection that turns a childhood wishing-star rhyme into an adult love song, celebrating…
infatuation luck and fate celestial imagery
Death Cab for Cutie
A breakup song dressed as a litany of paradoxes, where the singer catalogs contradictions in the world as a way of processing…
disillusionment after divorce contradiction and paradox forgiveness withheld
Kris Kristofferson
Kristofferson builds a composite portrait of a road-worn artist figure out of fragments of himself and his musician friends,…
self-destruction and creativity spiritual searching without arrival the cost of the touring musician's life
Queen
A slight, groove-driven vignette about attraction to someone effortlessly stylish and self-possessed, filtered through…
infatuation cool detachment vs. desire surface style over substance
Lauryn Hill
This is Lauryn Hill's rendition of the 1967 Frankie Valli classic, placed on The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill as a brief,…
infatuation gratitude vulnerability
A slow-dance ballad built around a single moment: crossing a crowded room toward someone and closing the distance between…
infatuation vulnerability physical desire
The Cure
A brooding, contradiction-laced love song in which the singer watches a partner leave and vows pursuit while also confessing…
romantic obsession loss and departure emotional volatility
Adele
A ballad of collapse and self-immolation in a relationship, where the narrator moves from surrender to a lover who deceived her,…
romantic betrayal self-destruction as catharsis obsessive attachment
Deep Purple
This is a straightforward garage-pop cover turned hard-rock workout, built almost entirely from nonsense syllables and a simple…
obsessive infatuation powerlessness in love physical desire
James Blake
A hazy meditation on romantic infatuation so intense it blurs into hallucination, James Blake's song treats intimacy as…
infatuation and disbelief dissolution of time psychedelic imagery of love
Tears for Fears
A love song that keeps interrupting itself, veering between romantic infatuation and anxious social commentary before dissolving…
infatuation and vulnerability fear of loss social conscience amid personal desire
Guy Clark
A meditation on late-life isolation and the compensatory warmth of old friendship, told through two verses of interior unease…
aging and solitude the value of long friendship emotional contradiction
Ella Fitzgerald
A standard-issue torch song from the Great American Songbook, "Misty" describes the disorientation of falling helplessly in…
helpless infatuation surrender of control sensory overwhelm
Curtis Mayfield
A late-70s disco-soul love song built almost entirely around physical and emotional surrender, with Curtis Mayfield trading his…
romantic and sexual devotion surrender of control obsession/infatuation
Weezer
A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…
self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure
Björk
Björk's cover reworks a 1951 Betty Hutton novelty tune into a dynamic set piece where hushed, orchestral verses collapse into…
the volatility of infatuation quiet vs. chaos as emotional states the absurdity of romantic obsession
Billy Joel
A young narrator describes a destructive, one-sided infatuation using imagery of physical danger — electrified rails, hidden…
obsessive infatuation self-destruction adolescent isolation
Creedence Clearwater Revival
A cover of the Gene Pitney-penned, Ricky Nelson-popularized 1961 pop-rock standard, this Mardi Gras rendition is CCR playing it…
love at first sight teenage infatuation nostalgia for early rock and roll
XTC
A giddy, image-drunk love song that describes a single overwhelming encounter through a barrage of unrelated historical and…
sudden infatuation the inadequacy of language before wonder celestial imagery displaced onto a person
Nirvana
A hazy invitation dissolves into contradiction as soon as it's offered: the singer welcomes you exactly as you are, then…
contradiction and self-cancellation false reassurance identity as unstable
SZA
Love Galore is SZA's clipped, cool-voiced meditation on wanting intimacy without wanting the vulnerability that comes with it.…
emotional detachment as self-protection transactional intimacy power and control in casual relationships
Madvillain
"Raid" is a two-verse showcase built around boastful self-mythologizing, with MF Doom opening and MED closing over a woozy,…
outlaw persona and contradiction poverty and hustling reputation and legend-building
Kanye West Tribute Band
Kanye West stages a war between street survival and spiritual longing, using a marching-drum gospel choir to frame hustling,…
faith under duress racial profiling and criminalization survivor's guilt
OutKast
A spoken-sung vignette of Atlanta nightlife that dissolves midway into a tender, sobering account of falling in love and…
urban nightlife and ritual romantic infatuation fatherhood and responsibility
Kacey Musgraves
A mid-tempo track from star-crossed that treats emotional recovery as nonlinear and messy rather than triumphant. The narrator…
nonlinear healing emotional contradiction self-permission
The Temptations
A buoyant, uncomplicated love song built around call-and-response praise for a girlfriend, moving through her hair, her…
romantic infatuation possessiveness physical vs. inner beauty
Robyn
A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…
romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity
Spoon
A pulsing title track built almost entirely around a single obsessive phrase, tracking a mind hijacked by desire while it's set…
obsession and infatuation loss of control urban nightlife / travel
Sleater‐Kinney
A giddy, self-aware love song that keeps interrupting its own swooning with jolts of caution and self-mockery. Sleater-Kinney…
romantic infatuation self-control vs. surrender desire as destabilizing force
Willie Nelson
This is a cover of the Creedence Clearwater Revival standard, and Willie Nelson's version leans into its plainspoken, riddling…
paradox and contradiction impending trouble endurance through time
Vampire Weekend
A hazy, morning-after vignette about running into a college crush across a campus quad and pretending not to care. The song…
youthful infatuation denial and pretense class and cultural markers
The Replacements
A scrappy, two-minute blast of teenage bravado that barely holds together as a song, which is the point: Westerberg sketches a…
adolescent defiance self-destructive pride desire disguised as indifference
Massive Attack
A stark breakup lyric built almost entirely from repetition, in which the singer's declaration of love and his admission that…
loss and lingering love emotional contradiction distance and displacement
Sly & Robbie
This is a hypnotic, largely wordless groove piece built around a single tension: the desire to stay still versus the pull to…
stillness vs motion bodily pleasure self-containment