Results for “irony and self-mockery”

Songs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

Boxcar

Jawbreaker

Jawbreaker's "Boxcar" is a scene-insider's takedown of scene-insiders, mocking the idea that punk authenticity can be policed by…

authenticity vs. gatekeeping subcultural policing betrayal by peers

Anti-Hero

Taylor Swift

Taylor Swift turns a self-lacerating confessional into a singalong chorus, cataloguing her worst self-perceptions—insomnia,…

self-loathing and self-awareness fame and disproportion fear of abandonment

I Get Along Without You Very Well (Except Sometimes)

Chet Baker

A standard from 1939 (words and music by Jane Brown Thompson, published as a discovery by Hoagy Carmichael) becomes, in Baker's…

denial as self-protection involuntary memory seasonal association with loss

Marry Me

St. Vincent

A woman proposes marriage to a man named John while openly admitting she plans to be emotionally absent and unfaithful the…

commitment vs. self-interest emotional unavailability performance of domesticity

BALD!

JPEGMAFIA

BALD! is JPEGMafia in full battle-rap mode, using his shaved head as a running joke and a badge of honor while he torches…

hypermasculine boasting industry contempt self-image and self-mockery

Crazy

Shawn Colvin

Shawn Colvin's cover of Gnarls Barkley's "Crazy" strips the original's soul-funk momentum down to something more intimate and…

mental instability as insight self-doubt versus self-acceptance isolation and disconnection

Send In the Clowns

Frank Sinatra

A Stephen Sondheim standard, originally written for the musical A Little Night Music, reimagined here through Sinatra's…

missed timing regret self-deception

Don't Swallow the Cap

The National

A woozy, fragmented meditation on emotional exhaustion and self-medication, delivered from inside a mind that can't quite trust…

emotional numbness self-deception and coping isolation vs. reassurance

The Ballad of Billy the Kid

Billy Joel

Billy Joel builds a mock-heroic Wild West ballad complete with outlaw legend and hanging, then in the final verse reveals it as…

mythmaking self-deprecation Americana pastiche

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

Volcano

Damien Rice

A duet-shaped confession about mismatched intimacy, where the narrator warns a partner against overcommitting emotionally while…

emotional imbalance self-doubt in intimacy fear of dependency

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Cheerleader

Grizzly Bear

A short, hypnotic song built around a repeated whispered aside that undercuts its own encouragement: the speaker admits to…

self-doubt emotional exhaustion performed positivity

Definitive Gaze

Magazine

A short, jagged meditation on the trap of self-consciousness, where the singer's supposed clarity of vision becomes a curse…

self-consciousness detachment perception vs reality

Send In the Clowns

Sarah Vaughan

Sondheim's meditation on romantic timing gets a slow, harmonically rich reading from Vaughan, whose jazz phrasing treats the…

misaligned timing regret self-mockery

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Missed the Boat

Modest Mouse

A meandering, self-lacerating meditation on complacency and missed opportunity, delivered with Modest Mouse's trademark mix of…

missed opportunity self-deception complacency

Smells Like Teen Spirit

Nirvana

A grunge anthem built almost entirely out of non-sequiturs and slogans, the song channels teenage apathy and irony rather than…

apathy and irony alienation consumerism and spectacle

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Turn Out the Lights

Julien Baker

A quiet, unflinching account of a mind alone at night, where the speaker admits to self-harm ideation without melodrama and asks…

depression and isolation self-harm ideation asking for help while deflecting it

Model Worker

Magazine

A deadpan monologue delivered in the voice of someone confessing bourgeois failings to an unseen authority and pledging reform…

ideological conformity self-criticism and confession consumerism vs. asceticism

Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales

Car Seat Headrest

A meditation on addiction, self-destruction, and the possibility of change, filtered through the recurring image of driving…

addiction and self-destruction shame and self-loathing the possibility of redemption

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Hot & Heavy

Lucy Dacus

Lucy Dacus revisits an old, formative relationship with a former self who has since become someone else entirely — more…

nostalgia and revisitation growth and self-transformation guilt and self-protection

How Simple

Hop Along

A song about watching your own self-regard curdle in real time, as the narrator catches themselves vain, self-deceiving, and…

vanity and self-scrutiny romantic self-deception impermanence of intimacy

Keep Yourself Alive

Queen

Queen's debut single is a wry survival manifesto disguised as a rock anthem, tracking a narrator who has chased every…

disillusionment with self-improvement excess and hollow experience survival versus success

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

Coming Up Roses

Elliott Smith

A hallucinatory address to a self or double, tracking a slow poisoning that the speaker frames as a kind of blooming. The song…

addiction and self-destruction dissociation from the self toxic inheritance

Blogging

Wire

Wire recast the nativity story as a satire of digital-age commerce and self-promotion, splicing biblical imagery with the…

technology and faith commodification of belief surveillance and self-branding

Don't You Worry 'Bout a Thing

Stevie Wonder

A loose, Latin-tinged groove built around a single reassurance that repeats until it becomes a mantra. The spoken intro's comic…

self-reliance reassurance/comfort authenticity vs. performance

Carefree

Mick Jenkins

Mick Jenkins sketches a beach hangout with friends and a lover as a fragile idyll, then keeps interrupting it with reminders…

racial surveillance the impossibility of leisure friendship and loyalty

Reason to Believe

Karen Dalton

Karen Dalton's reading of the Tim Hardin standard turns a folk-pop lament into something closer to a slow reckoning with…

self-deception emotional dependency betrayal

Spaced Cowboy

Sly & Robbie

A short, riddling piece built almost entirely from a single accusatory refrain, this track watches someone run from something --…

self-deception escapism debt and compulsion

Everything Is Everything

Lauryn Hill

A meditation on cyclical change and self-determination that doubles as a virtuosic display of rap craft, this track pairs a…

cyclical change and renewal self-empowerment spiritual/religious syncretism

A Fond Farewell

Elliott Smith

A quiet, devastating self-elegy disguised as a song about someone else, in which the narrator uses the third person to describe…

addiction self-annihilation denial and dissociation