Angel Olsen
A torch song built on the gap between wanting and having, sung to someone who will never be fully possessed. Angel Olsen stages…
unrequited longing jealousy and triangulated desire self-deception and resignation
Japanese Breakfast
A bruised, self-aware account of wanting someone who has already made clear they want someone else, or something else entirely.…
unrequited desire self-loathing jealousy
David Bowie
A voyeuristic narrator watches a street-corner seduction unfold from a hotel window, alternately mocking and envying the…
voyeurism and surveillance queer desire and rivalry gender performance and camp
Kate Bush
Kate Bush tells a compact fable of a wife who sets a trap for her own marriage by inventing a mysterious alter ego, only to…
jealousy and self-sabotage disguise and identity the decay of romantic feeling
Lauryn Hill
Performed live and introduced almost as an experiment in vulnerability after the confrontational 'Rebel', this song builds an…
surrender spiritual longing conflated with romantic desire purification
Blondie
A slight, doo-wop-inflected pop song about physical longing dressed up as teenage romantic melodrama. Blondie plays it as a…
desire and physical longing romantic jealousy performance of innocence vs. sexuality
George Michael
A dance-pop declaration of self-preservation dressed up as a love song: the narrator is attracted to someone but refuses to hand…
romantic self-protection distrust of surface attraction patience versus desire
Chaka Khan
A meditation on jealousy and reassurance, sung by a partner who has just been told about some flirtation or attention from an…
jealousy possessiveness self-assurance
SZA
SZA turns a breakup confession into a deadpan murder fantasy, using the exaggerated violence of the title as a vehicle for…
obsessive love jealousy denial and self-deception
Annie Lennox
Annie Lennox's reading of this Screamin' Jay Hawkins standard, cut for her covers album Nostalgia, strips the song down to its…
possessive love jealousy desperation
Maxwell
A neo-soul love song built almost entirely from negation and comparison: the singer catalogs firsts and never-had-befores to…
gratitude romantic awe transformation through love
A pure dancefloor invitation built on a single sensory equation: funk equals sugar equals irresistible pull. Chaka Khan spends…
physical pleasure dance as surrender desire
A breezy, almost novelty-pop daydream in which the singer imagines escaping gray urban New York for a sunlit, surf-and-luau…
escapism urban alienation fantasy vs. reality
Massive Attack
A hushed, circling meditation on romantic ambivalence, sung from the position of someone who claims to wish an ex-lover well…
ambivalence possessiveness disguised as tenderness jealousy
Queen
A hard-rock stomper about sneaking past disapproving parents to get to a girl, played entirely for comic, cartoonish swagger.…
teenage rebellion forbidden romance comic machismo
Ann Peebles
A stark relationship ultimatum built almost entirely on a single conditional refrain, this song treats mutual suspicion as a…
trust and suspicion jealousy relationship ultimatums
Curtis Mayfield
A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…
romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship
St. Vincent
A woman narrates a summer of collapse—medication, isolation, avoidance of family and mail—while a chorus repeats a request to be…
depression and isolation medicalization of the self desire for external repair
Roberta Flack
A slow-building meditation on desire that treats ordinary moments — a walk, a candlelit dinner, a touch — as triggers for…
desire and intimacy the sensuality of the ordinary seasonal renewal as metaphor
Bruce Springsteen
A minimal, hushed blues built on obsessive desire, where the narrator's want curdles into something closer to torment than…
obsessive desire sleeplessness and mental anguish transgressive attraction
PJ Harvey
A jealous, obsessive lover refuses to let go, oscillating between pleading vulnerability and menacing possessiveness. The song…
obsession codependency possessiveness
Michael Jackson
A nocturnal meditation on urban restlessness and desire, framed as a defense against unnamed accusers who question the…
urban alienation desire and impulse self-justification
Leonard Cohen
A short, incantatory prayer-song in which the speaker surrenders the illusion of being the one who loves and comes to see love…
surrender of ego divine or transcendent love exile and punishment
The Smiths
A stranded young man with a broken bicycle is picked up by an older, wealthier stranger, and the encounter becomes a charged,…
class anxiety closeted desire vanity and self-consciousness
The Strokes
A slack, half-confessional monologue about a lopsided romance where guilt, desire, and self-sabotage tangle together without…
failed responsibility desire and control guilt and self-justification
The Stooges
This is a song built almost entirely on repetition, groove, and physical grunt rather than narrative or wordplay. It circles a…
voyeurism and being watched sexual desire primal/animal imagery
Big Star
A woozy, half-collapsed love song built from disconnected snapshots rather than a story, drifting through washes of noise and…
fractured attention desire as disorientation voyeurism and observation
T. Rex
A glam-rock come-on that fuses car culture, cosmic imagery, and vampire slang into a single boastful seduction. Marc Bolan…
desire and objectification glamour of consumer culture (cars) seduction as performance
Patti Smith
A co-write between Patti Smith and Bruce Springsteen, this song turns nighttime into a sanctuary where desire overrides doubt…
desire as sustenance night as refuge doubt versus surrender
Cat Power
Cat Power turns the werewolf myth into a spare, almost hymn-like meditation on shame, desire, and the parts of ourselves that…
shame and secrecy duality of self compulsion and desire
Muddy Waters
A slow, grinding blues in which Muddy Waters uses a strange, oversized cat as a comic stand-in for suspicion and sexual…
jealousy and suspicion infidelity domestic surveillance
Al Green
This is a lean, driving groove song built almost entirely around one animal metaphor: the singer as a ram, butting persistently…
persistence in desire masculine self-assertion obstacle and pursuit
Bad Company
A straightforward blues-rock strut about wanting sex and not being satisfied, built almost entirely on one repeated declaration…
physical desire insatiability masculine bravado
A woman alone on a rainy night confesses to a desire strong enough to make her willing to wreck another relationship just to…
forbidden desire loneliness emotional compulsion versus morality
Television
The opening track of Marquee Moon works as a manifesto of pure appetite and willful blindness, its narrator declaring immediate…
desire and impatience willful ignorance denial of consequence
Eurythmics
This is a club remix of the Eurythmics classic, stripping the original's icy synth-pop menace down to a looped mantra built for…
universal desire ambivalence and detachment perseverance
The Rolling Stones
A relentless riff-driven come-on built almost entirely from a single mechanical metaphor: sex as an engine or vehicle that needs…
sexual desire machinery/car imagery as metaphor loss of control
Cream
This is Cream's electrified cover of a pre-war country blues (originally by Blind Joe Reynolds), turned into a slow-burning…
sexual jealousy infidelity folk wisdom/proverb
Marvin Gaye
A slow-burning plea for mutual desire, built almost entirely on repetition of a single wish stated and restated until it becomes…
unreciprocated desire longing for mutuality vulnerability in seduction
Gang of Four
A slogan-dense critique of consumer capitalism's colonization of desire, where leisure, sex, and love are recast as products and…
commodification of desire capitalism and leisure power disguised as pleasure