Results for “loss of gentleness/desire”

Songs

Gentle on My Mind

Alison Krauss

A cover of John Hartford's classic drifter song, sung here by Alison Krauss with a woman's voice addressing a wandering lover…

freedom vs attachment memory as intimacy itinerancy

Just Like Water

Lauryn Hill

Performed live and introduced almost as an experiment in vulnerability after the confrontational 'Rebel', this song builds an…

surrender spiritual longing conflated with romantic desire purification

All Thoughts Are Prey to Some Beast

Bill Callahan

Callahan builds an allegory in which his own mind is a bare tree full of small birds—his thoughts and desires—until a predatory…

the mind as ecosystem predation and vulnerability loss of gentleness/desire

Big Yellow Taxi (Original A Cappella with Guitar)

Joni Mitchell

Joni Mitchell's early environmental protest song works as a series of loosely connected complaints -- about development,…

environmental loss commodification of nature nostalgia and regret

On Hold

The xx

A breakup song built on the gap between assumed permanence and sudden loss, where the narrator realizes too late that…

complacency in love loss of control desire versus resentment

Surgeon

St. Vincent

A woman narrates a summer of collapse—medication, isolation, avoidance of family and mail—while a chorus repeats a request to be…

depression and isolation medicalization of the self desire for external repair

Bad Habits (Uncut)

Maxwell

Maxwell casts desire as an addiction that the singer both craves and cannot escape, framing love as a compulsion with real costs…

addiction as metaphor for love loss of control guilt and self-awareness

Start Me Up

The Rolling Stones

A relentless riff-driven come-on built almost entirely from a single mechanical metaphor: sex as an engine or vehicle that needs…

sexual desire machinery/car imagery as metaphor loss of control

Anthems For A Seventeen Year-Old Girl

Broken Social Scene

A brief, mantra-like lament for someone who has traded rebellious authenticity for polish and distance, sung by a narrator who…

nostalgia for authenticity loss of innocence desire and longing

Love Is Like a Heat Wave

The Supremes

A woman tries to name an overwhelming physical sensation of desire and cannot settle on whether it is bliss or affliction, so…

overwhelming desire loss of control bodily sensation as metaphor for emotion

So Emotional

Whitney Houston

A dance-pop track built around uncontrollable physical attraction rather than romance in any tender sense. The narrator catalogs…

obsessive desire loss of self-control infatuation vs. commitment

Black Maria

Todd Rundgren

A blues-drenched confession addressed to a personified nocturnal terror—likely obsessive desire or a destructive relationship…

obsession fear and desire intertwined loss of control

Touch Me I'm Going to Scream, Pt. 2

My Morning Jacket

A repetitive, ecstatic track built almost entirely around a single sensation of being overstimulated by connection or desire. It…

sensory overload desire and vulnerability spiritual/erotic conflation

Gotta Get: Closer

Maxwell

A live, largely improvised jam built around a single desperate hook, this performance treats sexual desire as a kind of…

desire as compulsion sex and spiritual ecstasy merged call-and-response performance

Is It Love

Gang of Four

A fractured meditation on desire and alienation, this song asks whether what passes for love is really love at all, or just…

alienation under capitalism commodification of intimacy loss of language/memory

Some Kinda Woman

Traffic

A straightforward blues-rock come-on built around infatuation and helplessness in the face of a magnetic, emotionally elusive…

desire and obsession loss of control emotional manipulation

Black

Pearl Jam

A song about the aftermath of a devastating breakup, built on the image of a world drained of color and identity once a lover is…

heartbreak and loss loss of identity grief's distortion of perception

Cinnamon Girl

Lana Del Rey

A woman stays tethered to a partner whose emotional and possibly chemical volatility she narrates with sensory precision, even…

emotional withholding addiction and self-medication codependency

Gloria (Backstage & Dangerous: The Private Rehearsal)

The Doors

This is a live rehearsal-tape performance of the Van Morrison/Them garage-rock standard, stretched by Jim Morrison into a loose,…

adolescent sexual awakening performance and improvisation desire and impatience

My Black Mama Part 1

Son House

An early Delta blues performance built from loosely linked verses about a woman, sexual and romantic frustration, and…

desire and dissatisfaction mortality and religious doubt masculine boasting

Softly, As In A Morning Sunrise

Abbey Lincoln

Abbey Lincoln takes a standard from the 1928 operetta "New Moon" and turns its sunrise imagery into a meditation on love's…

impermanence of love cyclical time desire and destruction

I Love You Like a Ball and Chain

Eurythmics

A blues-rock stomper built on a single blunt paradox: love as bondage that still feels good. The lyric never resolves the…

obsessive love addiction loss of self

Soothe My Soul

Depeche Mode

A blues-electro stalker's chant built almost entirely around a single fixation: sexual compulsion framed as addiction and…

obsession addiction desire as compulsion

Born Slippy (Nuxx)

Underworld

A stream-of-consciousness plunge through a night of drinking and drug-taking on the London Underground, told in fragmented,…

intoxication and dissociation urban nightlife loss of self

Wolf

Yeah Yeah Yeahs

A brief, incantatory song that uses the wolf as a figure for a hunger that is both predatory and vulnerable. Karen O's narrator…

desire as predation vulnerability disguised as ferocity spiritual longing

Oh My God

Adele

A woman recently out of a long relationship narrates the giddy, guilty rush of falling into a new attraction she knows is…

post-divorce self-reinvention guilt versus desire loss of control

The Shrine / An Argument

Fleet Foxes

This two-part suite pairs a quiet devotional wandering through orchards and fountains with a raw, sonically ravaged breakup…

longing and unfulfilled devotion loss of connection possessiveness and withdrawal

Goodbye

Steve Earle

A quiet, unadorned reckoning with a relationship dissolved somewhere in a haze of substance abuse, told by a narrator who can…

addiction and memory loss romantic loss guilt and self-reproach

Once I Had a Woman

Jimi Hendrix

This is a raw, improvisatory blues lament built almost entirely on vamped repetition rather than a finished lyric. Hendrix works…

loss and longing obsessive devotion the blues tradition of the departed woman

Head Over Heels / Broken

Tears for Fears

A love song that keeps interrupting itself, veering between romantic infatuation and anxious social commentary before dissolving…

infatuation and vulnerability fear of loss social conscience amid personal desire

Down by the Water

PJ Harvey

A murder ballad told in fragments, where a narrator confesses to drowning a girl referred to alternately as lover and daughter,…

guilt and confession incest/taboo desire folk horror and Southern gothic

Faith

George Michael

A dance-pop declaration of self-preservation dressed up as a love song: the narrator is attracted to someone but refuses to hand…

romantic self-protection distrust of surface attraction patience versus desire

Marrow

St. Vincent

A body-as-machine conceit turns into a distress call, as the singer catalogs her own anatomy in clinical fragments before the…

mental strain and breakdown bodily control vs. helplessness performed composure

The Wind

PJ Harvey

A ghost story told through a fictional or half-legendary figure named Catherine, who withdraws from worldly life into a hilltop…

isolation and withdrawal from society female sainthood and sacrifice loss of status and desire

Fell On Black Days

Soundgarden

A meditation on depression arriving without warning, framed as a reversal of fortune the speaker can neither explain nor escape.…

depression and inertia loss of self-trust reversal of fortune

Touch

Seal

A sparse, almost incantatory song about physical absence and longing, built less on narrative than on the repetition of sensory…

longing memory of intimacy loss

Rockin' After Midnight

Marvin Gaye

A late-night dance-floor come-on built almost entirely from repeated affirmations of desire, this track functions less as a…

desire nightlife/escapism romantic pursuit

Desperados Waiting for a Train

Guy Clark

A grown narrator remembers the old oilman who raised him, tracing their bond from childhood through the man's decline and death.…

intergenerational friendship aging and mortality masculine mythmaking

Love Is A Losing Game

Amy Winehouse

A brief, elegiac torch song that treats a finished love affair as a game whose outcome was rigged from the start. Winehouse…

romantic disillusionment fatalism self-implication in heartbreak

Reach For The Dead

Boards of Canada

An instrumental piece built from wavering analog synths and a slow, hazy tempo, "Reach for the Dead" trades on Boards of…

memory and decay mortality childhood nostalgia