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A blues-rock warning shot aimed at a rival encroaching on the narrator's relationship. It's less a fully worked lyric than a…
jealousy and possessiveness masculine pride confrontation
Madvillain
A jealous, wounded rant against a cheating lover and her new partner, delivered as a broken phone call full of accusation, petty…
betrayal and infidelity masculine pride and possessiveness petty revenge
Loretta Lynn
A wronged woman confronts her partner's infidelity by dismantling the appeal of the other woman, insisting the rival's power is…
betrayal and infidelity female rivalry possessiveness
Lana Del Rey
This is Lana Del Rey's faithful, lightly reworked cover of Sublime's 1996 track, itself a reggae-inflected reimagining of the…
betrayal and possessiveness local pride and belonging romantic disillusionment
Bad Company
A late-80s Bad Company arena-rock track built around a single accusatory conceit: suspicious behavior is proof of infidelity.…
infidelity and suspicion wounded masculine pride desire versus self-respect
Thin Lizzy
This is Thin Lizzy in full riff-driven bravado mode, a Saturday-night anthem that fuses schoolyard aggression, romantic…
masculine bravado violence as ritual working-class nightlife
Mississippi John Hurt
Mississippi John Hurt's version of the Stagolee legend strips the story down to its bare bones: a hat, a gun, a killing, and an…
violence and its casualness justice and law folk mythology
Howlin’ Wolf
A raw, twelve-bar declaration of a man reaching his breaking point in a mistreatment relationship, moving from anguished threat…
romantic mistreatment pride and endurance desperation
Smokey Robinson
This is a late-career Smokey Robinson track built on a single conceit: a lover's body, or more precisely an intimate…
sexual exclusivity possessiveness as devotion intimacy as sanctuary
George Jones
A defiant novelty-tinged honky-tonk anthem in which an aging performer refuses the trappings of old age, insisting his body may…
aging and mortality defiance of retirement identity tied to performance
Rodney Crowell
A rockabilly-style car song that celebrates a 1956 Plymouth Fury as an icon of speed, style, and small-town swagger from the…
Americana nostalgia masculinity and status regional pride (Texas)
Muddy Waters
A slow, grinding blues in which Muddy Waters uses a strange, oversized cat as a comic stand-in for suspicion and sexual…
jealousy and suspicion infidelity domestic surveillance
The Beach Boys
An early Beach Boys car song that treats a Chevrolet engine like a lover and a racehorse at once, built almost entirely on chant…
car culture masculine pride and status consumerism/saving toward a goal
PJ Harvey
A jealous, obsessive lover refuses to let go, oscillating between pleading vulnerability and menacing possessiveness. The song…
obsession codependency possessiveness
Chaka Khan
A meditation on jealousy and reassurance, sung by a partner who has just been told about some flirtation or attention from an…
jealousy possessiveness self-assurance
SZA
SZA turns a breakup confession into a deadpan murder fantasy, using the exaggerated violence of the title as a vehicle for…
obsessive love jealousy denial and self-deception
Harry Nilsson
Nilsson's reading of the Pomus-Shuman standard takes a song already built on a tension between generosity and possessiveness and…
jealousy disguised as devotion possessiveness trust and its limits
A late-career Muddy Waters track that functions as a genealogical claim and a roll call, tracing rock and roll's parentage…
musical lineage authorship and ownership of a genre community and testimony
Michael Jackson
A buoyant, physically driven declaration of infatuation built almost entirely around a single hook that gets repeated, echoed,…
infatuation desire and pursuit possessiveness
B.B. King
A straightforward blues-soul declaration built almost entirely on the repeated phrase of devotion, this track trades narrative…
devotion fear of abandonment reassurance
The Band
A blues-rooted warning song built almost entirely on one refrain: the woman you love will mistreat you, and that mistreatment is…
romantic mistrust resignation and complicity double standards in love
George Michael
A pop-funk plea from a partner watching a lover slide back into a destructive habit, with the habit personified as a rival for…
addiction as rival codependency frustrated love
Elliott Smith
A hushed, seductive address that turns out to be spoken in the voice of addiction itself, offering comfort, oblivion, and…
addiction as intimate voice self-destruction disguised as tenderness loss of potential
Neutral Milk Hotel
A distorted, obsessive love song that swings between tenderness and revulsion, built around the fixation of a narrator who both…
obsessive desire idealization vs. disgust possession and control
Mitski
A brief, hymn-like address to the moon in which the speaker asks that their love outlive their body. It works less as narrative…
mortality possession and dispossession love as legacy
Lucinda Williams
A woman lays out terms for a lover who confuses aggression with masculinity, insisting that tenderness and respect are the real…
masculinity and its performance sexual respect and reciprocity desire coexisting with frustration
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
A short, incantatory track built around elemental imagery of fire and water, where a possessed or transformed narrator moves…
transformation purification possession/obsession
Annie Lennox
Annie Lennox's reading of this Screamin' Jay Hawkins standard, cut for her covers album Nostalgia, strips the song down to its…
possessive love jealousy desperation
Deerhunter
A brief, jangly pop song that fuses the language of romantic infatuation with imagery of illness, possession, and death, so that…
obsessive love possession and illness death and reincarnation
Pet Shop Boys
A jealous lover watches a partner flirt and toy with a string of admirers, using the image of dominoes toppling one after…
jealousy and possessiveness romantic betrayal seduction as a game
Magazine
A first-person monologue delivered from a position of self-declared abjection, in which the speaker inventories his own…
self-loathing as identity perverse pride alienation
Nat King Cole
This is Nat King Cole's rendition of "La Adelita," one of the best-known corridos of the Mexican Revolution, sung from the…
devotion and possessiveness war and mortality folk heroism
James Blake
A luxury-draped love song built on a Metro Boomin/Travis Scott feature that trades Blake's usual confessional ache for a more…
possessive intimacy material excess as emotional language fear of solitude
Built to Spill
Built to Spill open their 2006 album with a long, guitar-driven meditation on doubt and self-contradiction, built from a handful…
self-doubt masculinity and its expectations religious skepticism
The Cure
A hypnotic, dread-soaked incantation in which the speaker is consumed nightly by obsession, grief, and something like…
obsessive love death and the afterlife possession and loss of will
Patsy Cline
A wistful farewell that sends a traveling lover off around the globe while quietly staking a claim on his heart. Cline's reading…
longing and separation possession within love travel as distance
Carly Simon
A woman confronts a partner who has just confessed some flirtation or infidelity, and instead of collapsing into jealousy she…
possessiveness disguised as devotion jealousy and self-assurance confession and its fallout
Echo & the Bunnymen
This is a song of self-possessed detachment, addressed to a former partner or rival whose emotional theatrics the narrator…
emotional detachment self-reliance pride versus vulnerability
Digable Planets
A loose, groove-driven travelogue through Brooklyn, built more on atmosphere and rhythm than narrative, where the trio's verses…
place and belonging Brooklyn/borough pride Black cultural memory
Randy Newman
A booming, boosterish anthem that turns out to be a satire of boosterism itself: the narrator's civic pride is so shallow and…
civic pride as delusion class blindness American boosterism