Results for “numbness and disassociation”

Songs

The Modern Leper

Julien Baker

A speaker describes himself through the metaphor of a leper or an amputee, someone missing pieces of himself who nonetheless…

self-destruction codependency physical disability as metaphor for emotional damage

Fast Slow Disco

St. Vincent

A slow, half-drunk meditation on wanting to be somewhere and wanting to leave it at the same time, set against the…

social ambivalence disassociation withdrawal/escape

Fake Empire

The National

A quiet, waltz-time song that uses childlike, storybook imagery to describe willful escapism, both personal and political. Its…

escapism denial numbness

Lover's Spit

Broken Social Scene

A hazy, minimal song built around one blunt image repeated until it loses its shock and becomes atmosphere. Broken Social Scene…

intimacy and exhaustion growing up reluctantly ambiguous consent

Hateful

The Clash

A short, jittery song built as a call-and-response addiction narrative, where the speaker's supplier is addressed with the…

addiction and dependency self-deception isolation

Easy to Slip

Little Feat

A short, melancholic meditation on emotional numbness after a breakup, where drifting into forgetfulness feels dangerously…

emotional numbness memory and forgetting romantic loss

Winter Is Blue

Vashti Bunyan

A short, spare lament that treats a failed love as a seasonal death, letting the bleakness of winter stand in for emotional…

loss of love seasonal metaphor for grief emotional numbness

Say Something Loving

The xx

A love song built out of doubt rather than certainty, tracking a narrator relearning intimacy after emotional numbness. The xx…

emotional numbness vulnerability in new intimacy memory and forgetting

New Dawn Fades

Joy Division

A meditation on emotional numbness and self-estrangement, delivered in the flat, exhausted cadence typical of Joy Division. The…

emotional numbness self-alienation futility of change

Uneventful Days

Beck

A hazy breakup meditation built on repetition and stasis, where time itself seems to have stopped moving. Beck uses flat,…

emotional numbness the end of love stalled time

The Ghosts of Beverly Drive

Death Cab for Cutie

A song about emotional numbness and compulsive return, framed through the imagery of Los Angeles wealth and a failed…

emotional numbness compulsive repetition transactional relationships

Needles In My Eyes

The Beta Band

A woozy, contradiction-laced account of a relationship curdling into numbness, where pleasure and pain keep swapping places…

emotional numbness romantic ambivalence self-destruction

Lucretia My Reflection

The Sisters of Mercy

A dense, industrial-sounding incantation that fuses imagery of collapsing empires, war machinery, and drug-fueled decadence into…

imperial decline dissociation and numbness decadence and excess

Nothing Ever Happened

Deerhunter

A short, hypnotic piece about emotional numbness and passive existence, built on a repeated denial that anything of substance…

dissociation passivity time and memory

Insight

Joy Division

A stark, incantatory meditation on numbness and detachment, built around a repeated declaration of fearlessness that reads less…

emotional numbness memory and nostalgia detachment from fear

Disorder (2019 Digital Master)

Joy Division

Disorder opens Unknown Pleasures with a portrait of emotional numbness racing toward crisis, its narrator caught between craving…

emotional numbness alienation loss of control

Standin' In the Rain Blues

Bessie Smith

A minimal, twelve-bar blues built almost entirely around a single weather image, using the rain as a stand-in for hardship that…

resilience emotional numbness poverty and shelter

Bloodbuzz Ohio

The National

A disoriented homecoming song built from fragments rather than a clear story: a man returns to Ohio broke, unmoored, and…

debt and economic anxiety displacement and homecoming emotional numbness

Someone Great

LCD Soundsystem

A deceptively upbeat, xylophone-driven track that turns out to be about receiving news of a death and moving through the numb,…

grief and loss emotional numbness time and mortality

Disorder

Joy Division

Disorder opens Unknown Pleasures as a portrait of emotional numbness accelerating into panic, sung by a narrator who wants to…

emotional numbness loss of control alienation

Creature Comfort

Arcade Fire

A synth-driven anthem that turns confessional details about body image, self-harm, and suicidal ideation into a critique of a…

self-loathing and body image fame as false salvation numbness and dissociation

Anodyne

Uncle Tupelo

A terse breakup song built around a single clinical word repeated like a diagnosis. The narrator describes a relationship's end…

emotional numbness failed relationships irreconcilability

I Think It's Going to Rain Today

Randy Newman

A short, spare piece built almost entirely on images of decay and false cheer, undercut by a refrain that turns 'kindness' into…

urban decay isolation irony of charity/kindness

Can't Find My Heart

Broken Social Scene

A hushed, hypnotic plea built almost entirely from conditional clauses and a repeated invitation to go home, undercut by a…

emotional numbness conditional intimacy self-doubt

Dissolved Girl

Massive Attack

A stripped, weary meditation on romantic inertia, sung by Sara Jézéquel (credited as Sarah Jay) with Robert Del Naja's added…

emotional numbness romantic dependency self-dissolution

Something Changed

Interpol

A late-period Interpol track built around emotional exhaustion and tentative reconnection, where the speaker keeps asking an…

forgiveness without resolution emotional numbness belonging and collective suffering

Once I Had a Love (a.k.a.. The Disco Song)

Blondie

This early Blondie track (later reworked into "Heart of Glass") strips romantic disillusionment down to a chant-like refrain:…

disillusionment in love self-deception emotional numbness

Hardly Getting Over It

Hüsker Dü

A song from Hüsker Dü's original run recast here as a live document, this track builds a bleak inventory of loss — a broken…

mortality emotional numbness aging and decline

Wake Up

Arcade Fire

An anthem built from a children's chant that mourns the loss of childhood wonder while trying to reclaim it. The song moves from…

loss of innocence aging and emotional numbness mortality

Radio Cure

Wilco

A hushed, fragmented meditation on depression and long-distance love, sung as a repeated apology and self-diagnosis. The song…

depression and emotional numbness distance in relationships failure of communication

Crazy Love, Vol. II

Paul Simon

A woozy, deliberately flat account of a marriage falling apart, narrated through a comic-surreal alter ego who claims total…

emotional numbness as defense marital breakdown denial and detachment

I Get a Kick Out of You

Frank Sinatra

A Cole Porter standard in which a jaded sophisticate catalogs every conventional pleasure that fails to move him, only to admit…

ennui and sophistication unrequited or unequal love irony of excess

100%

Sonic Youth

A tribute song built from fragments of grief, aggression, and dark humor, written in memory of a scene figure lost to violence.…

violent death and its aftermath rock scene mythology and idolization gender and predation within a music subculture

Only You

Portishead

A brooding trip-hop meditation on emotional dependency and self-alienation, built around a hypnotic vocal sample and a chorus…

emotional dependency numbness and self-alienation disillusionment

Everything Now

Arcade Fire

Arcade Fire turns the ABBA-adjacent disco hook into an inventory of surfeit: a world so saturated with information, content, and…

information overload consumerism emotional numbness

Dead Man Walking

Stiff Little Fingers

A brief, almost hallucinatory street encounter becomes an image for a particular kind of survivor's isolation. The song circles…

isolation amid crowds survival and haunting emotional numbness

Moscow Song

Kris Delmhorst

A restless traveler flees intimacy by literally fleeing a country, only to find that displacement doesn't cure the ache for…

restlessness and flight fear of intimacy emotional numbness

Who Loves the Sun

The Velvet Underground

A breakup song disguised as a sunny pop singalong, where the narrator lists ordinary sources of joy — sun, wind, rain — only to…

heartbreak emotional numbness irony between form and content

Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales

Car Seat Headrest

A meditation on addiction, self-destruction, and the possibility of change, filtered through the recurring image of driving…

addiction and self-destruction shame and self-loathing the possibility of redemption

Are You Alive?

Orbital

A fragmented, mantra-like track that circles a question about whether emotional or authentic life survives inside systems of…

alienation under capitalism authenticity vs. performance emotional numbness