Deerhunter
A brief, jangly pop song that fuses the language of romantic infatuation with imagery of illness, possession, and death, so that…
obsessive love possession and illness death and reincarnation
PJ Harvey
A jealous, obsessive lover refuses to let go, oscillating between pleading vulnerability and menacing possessiveness. The song…
obsession codependency possessiveness
Chaka Khan
A meditation on jealousy and reassurance, sung by a partner who has just been told about some flirtation or attention from an…
jealousy possessiveness self-assurance
Elliott Smith
A hushed, seductive address that turns out to be spoken in the voice of addiction itself, offering comfort, oblivion, and…
addiction as intimate voice self-destruction disguised as tenderness loss of potential
Mitski
A brief, hymn-like address to the moon in which the speaker asks that their love outlive their body. It works less as narrative…
mortality possession and dispossession love as legacy
The Cure
A hypnotic, dread-soaked incantation in which the speaker is consumed nightly by obsession, grief, and something like…
obsessive love death and the afterlife possession and loss of will
Patsy Cline
A wistful farewell that sends a traveling lover off around the globe while quietly staking a claim on his heart. Cline's reading…
longing and separation possession within love travel as distance
Uncle Tupelo
A breakup song built around a simple exchange-of-belongings conceit, where the speaker asks for his possessions back while…
heartbreak addiction blame and self-justification
Joy Division
A stark, clinical account of watching someone lose command of their own body and mind, built around a mechanical repeated…
loss of control epilepsy/illness powerlessness of the observer
Nina Simone
A catalog of natural images—birds, rivers, blossoms, stars—builds toward a declaration of liberation and renewal. Simone's…
liberation and freedom renewal rebirth through nature
Free
A blues-rock warning shot aimed at a rival encroaching on the narrator's relationship. It's less a fully worked lyric than a…
jealousy and possessiveness masculine pride confrontation
SZA
SZA casts herself as the mistress in a triangle and refuses the shame the role usually carries, framing her position as a…
infidelity and complicity self-worth versus desire possession and comparison
Betty Davis
Betty Davis takes the insults an ex has thrown at her -- witch, alley cat, dirty dog -- and turns them into a badge of honor,…
sexual autonomy reclaiming slurs female desire vs. respectability
Fleet Foxes
A short, dread-laced folk song about arriving too late for a lost love, told through images of bodily decay and a locked door.…
loss and abandonment decay and mortality possessiveness/control
Talking Heads
A household turns a newborn into a novelty toy, with siblings and cooing relatives conspiring to keep him awake past his bedtime…
family and domesticity possession and objectification innocence versus adult impulse
The Kinks
The Kinks revive Lola from their earlier hit only to trap her in a nervous, self-lacerating anthem about anxiety and…
paranoia and mental illness self-sabotage fame and surveillance anxiety
Little Feat
A late-night narrator wanders into a seedy nightclub called the Spanish Moon and finds himself pawning his possessions to keep…
seduction and ruin vice and nightlife music as intoxicant
Warren Zevon
A cover of Dylan's outlaw death-ballad, recorded by Zevon while he was terminally ill, so the song's fictional frame collapses…
mortality surrender acceptance
Animal Collective
A dreamlike wish-song built around water as an image of fluidity, ease, and self-erasure, drifting through loosely connected…
desire for formlessness/transformation mortality and impermanence creativity and artistic longing
Erykah Badu
A meditation on spiritual self-possession disguised as a loose, jazzy groove, 'On & On' moves through riddles, numerology, and…
spiritual self-knowledge Afrocentric/Five Percenter theology cyclical time and endurance