Joni Mitchell
A young woman collects a string of suitors—a sailor, a mountaineer, an office correspondent, and finally an unnumbered crowd of…
freedom versus commitment female autonomy in the 1960s emotional self-protection
Talib Kweli
A breezy, radio-ready love-and-lust song built around a repeated hook praising a woman's heat and appeal. Talib Kweli trades his…
desire and attraction romantic idealization pop culture reference as flattery
Joan Baez
A Bob Dylan composition performed here by Joan Baez, the song is a firm, almost gentle refusal of an idealized love that demands…
refusal of idealized love autonomy versus self-erasure disillusionment with romantic fantasy
Tom Petty
Tom Petty builds a wry daydream around the fantasy of absolute power and ease, using the language of royalty as a stand-in for…
escapism fantasy vs reality longing for control
Maxwell
A quiet devotional love song built almost entirely from offers and conditionals, in which the narrator surrenders control to a…
devotion and self-surrender vulnerability in love unconditional availability
Blondie
A cover of a 1963 girl-group style bubblegum tune, reworked by Blondie into a knowing new wave valentine that trades on…
infatuation surface pleasure and artifice girl-group nostalgia
Dolly Parton
A direct plea from one woman to another, sung by a narrator who feels powerless against a rival's beauty and her partner's…
romantic insecurity female rivalry and solidarity powerlessness
OutKast
An apology addressed to a hostile mother-in-law figure that keeps curdling into self-justification, "Ms. Jackson" turns the…
fractured families co-parenting and custody conflict accountability vs. resentment
Leonard Cohen
This is a late-Cohen autopsy of a life spent chasing and fleeing intimacy, delivered as a kind of confessional inventory. Cohen…
mortality and retrospection the failure of romantic and religious ideals self-mythologizing and its collapse
The Supremes
A pastoral love song built on borrowed classical melody (adapted from a Baroque minuet traditionally attributed to Bach,…
idealized romance nature as backdrop for love devotion and permanence
Radiohead
A song of self-loathing built around a single obsessive comparison: the speaker idolizes someone he sees as flawless while…
self-loathing unrequited desire alienation
Steve Earle
A wry character sketch of an unrepentant romantic drifter told from the outside, by a narrator warning a woman about the man's…
romantic recidivism performance vs. sincerity the myth of the outlaw lover
Roxy Music
A quiet plea for romantic risk-taking from a narrator who has been burned by love before. The song trades Roxy Music's earlier…
romantic vulnerability emotional fatigue hope after disappointment
Smokey Robinson
A straightforward declaration of romantic devotion, built on the classic Smokey Robinson template of certainty and fidelity. The…
romantic devotion certainty/fate fidelity
Deep Purple
This is Deep Purple's cover of the Neil Diamond original, a straightforward blues-rock love song built around a repeated title…
idealized love devotion simplicity/contentment
Robyn
A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…
romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity
Nat King Cole
A classic Cuban bolero of romantic frustration, in which a lover demands a straight answer about the future of the relationship…
romantic indecision frustration and waiting time slipping away
The Beatles
A quiet reckoning with memory, this song moves from cataloguing remembered places and people to settling on a present love that…
memory and nostalgia mortality the present versus the past
Bad Company
A late-period Bad Company track built around a simple, almost adolescent premise: a narrator paralyzed by unspoken feelings for…
unrequited longing fear of rejection romantic timidity
Lucinda Williams
An early Lucinda Williams ballad addressed to an idealized poet-lover, mixing plainspoken country-blues devotion with a fantasy…
idealized love escapism artistic admiration
Whitney Houston
A devotional love ballad built almost entirely on a single act of assertion: repeated declarations of faith in a partner rather…
romantic devotion faith and belief as metaphor for love surrender/vulnerability
Angel Olsen
A driving, garage-pop declaration of romantic persistence, in which the narrator refuses to let a faltering relationship end…
romantic persistence refusal to quit desire versus communication
The Fall
This is a plainspoken cautionary tale about romantic self-deception: a man ignores his own instincts, falls hard for a woman who…
self-deception romantic ruin pride and consequence
Neutral Milk Hotel
A meditation on love, mortality, and impermanence that blurs the line between romantic address and elegy, filtered through Jeff…
mortality and impermanence romantic devotion memory and loss
The Strokes
The title track of The Strokes' debut is a woozy, deadpan meditation on romantic and existential exhaustion, delivered in a…
disaffection romantic dishonesty generational ennui
Massive Attack
A stripped, weary meditation on romantic inertia, sung by Sara Jézéquel (credited as Sarah Jay) with Robert Del Naja's added…
emotional numbness romantic dependency self-dissolution
Frank Ocean
"Chanel" is a loose, associative track built around the Chanel logo's interlocking C's as a metaphor for bisexuality and duality…
bisexuality and duality surveillance and paranoia wealth as armor
Carly Simon
Carly Simon splices the nursery rhyme about the persistent spider into the title track's refrain from her own 'Coming Around…
resilience cyclical hope romantic disappointment
Lana Del Rey
This is Lana Del Rey's faithful, lightly reworked cover of Sublime's 1996 track, itself a reggae-inflected reimagining of the…
betrayal and possessiveness local pride and belonging romantic disillusionment
A meditation on romantic infatuation that refuses to resolve into either full escape or full surrender, built around the central…
romantic obsession self-sufficiency amid heartbreak creative identity as refuge
George Michael
A dance-pop declaration of self-preservation dressed up as a love song: the narrator is attracted to someone but refuses to hand…
romantic self-protection distrust of surface attraction patience versus desire
Peter Gabriel
A love song that treats romantic devotion as a form of spiritual salvation, where another person's gaze becomes the only stable…
romantic devotion as salvation spiritual longing expressed through eros restlessness and escape
Bruce Springsteen
A young man on a porch pleads with a woman named Mary to leave their fading town with him, framing an escape by car as both…
escape and flight romantic persuasion as salvation small-town limitation
D'Angelo
A slow-groove love song built almost entirely from a single circling phrase, promising that romantic devotion is enough to…
romantic devotion as survival domestic intimacy sensuality
The Band
A small-time narrator in a decaying Atlantic City weighs a desperate, half-criminal solution to his debts against a fragile…
economic desperation organized crime and violence romantic loyalty amid ruin
Laura Marling
This is Laura Marling's rendition of a 1965 folk standard originally written by Jackson C. Frank, a song about restless flight…
itinerancy and escape addiction as coping mechanism inescapability of sorrow
Weezer
A deliberately simple escapist fantasy, built almost entirely from stock vacation imagery and a chant-like hook, that trades…
escapism forgetting the past idealized love
Fleetwood Mac
A folk-rock kiss-off built on willful avoidance: the narrator insists they won't ask why a relationship is ending, framing that…
denial as self-protection romantic exhaustion emotional withholding
Donny Hathaway
This is a live soul rendering of the Beatles standard, transformed from a chamber-pop miniature into an extended…
romantic loss nostalgia regret
An opening-track statement of exhaustion and detachment, "What Ever Happened?" pairs a jittery, almost panicked vocal delivery…
desire for erasure/anonymity romantic withdrawal cultural anxiety and authenticity