Results for “self-betrayal”

Songs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

Reason to Believe

Karen Dalton

Karen Dalton's reading of the Tim Hardin standard turns a folk-pop lament into something closer to a slow reckoning with…

self-deception emotional dependency betrayal

Squonk

Genesis

Genesis take the folkloric Squonk—a creature of Pennsylvania legend so ashamed of its own ugliness that it weeps constantly and…

shame and self-loathing the cruelty of pursuit despair and self-destruction

A Rose Is Still a Rose

Aretha Franklin

Aretha Franklin plays elder counselor to a wounded young woman, using the image of a rose to insist that sexual betrayal doesn't…

self-worth after betrayal intergenerational female solidarity resilience

Blindness

The Fall

This is a plainspoken cautionary tale about romantic self-deception: a man ignores his own instincts, falls hard for a woman who…

self-deception romantic ruin pride and consequence

Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'

Michael Jackson

A funk-driven complaint about gossip and betrayal, built almost entirely from repetition and chant rather than narrative detail.…

gossip and rumor paranoia and persecution betrayal

Once I Had a Love (a.k.a.. The Disco Song)

Blondie

This early Blondie track (later reworked into "Heart of Glass") strips romantic disillusionment down to a chant-like refrain:…

disillusionment in love self-deception emotional numbness

Our Mutual Friend

The Divine Comedy

A narrator recounts, almost in the deadpan style of a night-club anecdote, the giddy arc of a one-night connection that curdles…

betrayal romantic self-deception alcohol-fuelled intimacy

Dreams

TV on the Radio

A collapse address delivered with strange tenderness: the singer confronts someone who has burned their own bridges through…

moral collapse denial and self-blindness grief that cannot be felt

Let Him Run Wild

The Beach Boys

A jilted-then-vindicated narrator watches a woman he loves get mistreated by another man, and uses her heartbreak as an opening…

jealousy romantic rivalry self-vindication

Feel

Big Star

An opening-track statement of collapse dressed as a rock song, "Feel" uses blunt repetition and a horn-driven arrangement to…

emotional exhaustion betrayal romantic ruin

The Agony of Laffitte

Spoon

A cryptic, industry-inflected kiss-off aimed at a music-business figure who's been caught performing sincerity rather than…

authenticity vs. image music industry disillusionment betrayal

Sleep to Dream

Fiona Apple

A confrontational breakup song in which the narrator refuses to be gaslit or diminished by a partner who has treated her badly.…

self-assertion betrayal refusal of victimhood

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

On Fire

Sebadoh

A confessional song about the damage careless speech does, sung by a narrator who admits to gossip, betrayal, and self-serving…

guilt and self-justification unreliable speech/gossip jealousy

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Volcano

Damien Rice

A duet-shaped confession about mismatched intimacy, where the narrator warns a partner against overcommitting emotionally while…

emotional imbalance self-doubt in intimacy fear of dependency

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Cheerleader

Grizzly Bear

A short, hypnotic song built around a repeated whispered aside that undercuts its own encouragement: the speaker admits to…

self-doubt emotional exhaustion performed positivity

Sailin' On

Bad Brains

A short, propulsive breakup song that doubles as a manifesto of resilience, built on the tension between betrayal and forward…

resilience betrayal and disillusionment self-determination

Hold Ya Head

The Notorious B.I.G.

This is Biggie's bleakest first-person confession, a suicidal monologue framed by a mournful sample of a mother grieving her…

suicidal ideation self-loathing street violence and its aftermath

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Temptation

New Order

A dance-pop track built from disconnected emotional fragments rather than a linear story, this song stages the anxiety of desire…

romantic infatuation loss of self guilt and betrayal

The Stranger

Billy Joel

Billy Joel builds a meditation on the hidden selves everyone conceals from lovers, using the whistled melody and shifting moods…

hidden identity betrayal in relationships self-deception

Crystal

New Order

A guitar-driven return-to-form track that treats romantic fragility as both confession and defiance, opening an album that…

fragility of love guilt and betrayal emotional dependency

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Babooshka

Kate Bush

Kate Bush tells a compact fable of a wife who sets a trap for her own marriage by inventing a mysterious alter ego, only to…

jealousy and self-sabotage disguise and identity the decay of romantic feeling

Turn Out the Lights

Julien Baker

A quiet, unflinching account of a mind alone at night, where the speaker admits to self-harm ideation without melodrama and asks…

depression and isolation self-harm ideation asking for help while deflecting it

Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales

Car Seat Headrest

A meditation on addiction, self-destruction, and the possibility of change, filtered through the recurring image of driving…

addiction and self-destruction shame and self-loathing the possibility of redemption

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Hot & Heavy

Lucy Dacus

Lucy Dacus revisits an old, formative relationship with a former self who has since become someone else entirely — more…

nostalgia and revisitation growth and self-transformation guilt and self-protection

How Simple

Hop Along

A song about watching your own self-regard curdle in real time, as the narrator catches themselves vain, self-deceiving, and…

vanity and self-scrutiny romantic self-deception impermanence of intimacy

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

It's Not Right But It's Okay

Whitney Houston

A woman confronts a partner's infidelity using hard evidence rather than accusation, then pivots from hurt to expulsion. The…

infidelity and evidence self-respect over reconciliation resilience after betrayal

Coming Up Roses

Elliott Smith

A hallucinatory address to a self or double, tracking a slow poisoning that the speaker frames as a kind of blooming. The song…

addiction and self-destruction dissociation from the self toxic inheritance

Boxcar

Jawbreaker

Jawbreaker's "Boxcar" is a scene-insider's takedown of scene-insiders, mocking the idea that punk authenticity can be policed by…

authenticity vs. gatekeeping subcultural policing betrayal by peers

Set Fire to the Rain

Adele

A ballad of collapse and self-immolation in a relationship, where the narrator moves from surrender to a lover who deceived her,…

romantic betrayal self-destruction as catharsis obsessive attachment