Results for “self-deception in love”

Songs

Love More

Sharon Van Etten

A quietly devastating account of an abusive relationship told with disorienting flatness, where the speaker's memories of…

domestic abuse and control normalization of harm survival and self-deception

All About Our Love

Sade

A spare, almost liturgical love song that trades narrative detail for repetition and affirmation. Sade uses a handful of phrases…

endurance of love forgiveness renewal

If You Love Me

B.B. King

This is a plainspoken love-and-commitment song built almost entirely on conditional statements, trading the verse-chorus…

conditional love mutual understanding commitment

LOVE.

Kendrick Lamar

A relatively unguarded pop-leaning track for DAMN., LOVE. sets a domestic, romantic duet (with Zacari) against the album's…

conditional vs. unconditional love fame and material status as tests of loyalty domestic intimacy amid instability

Isn't She Lovely

Stevie Wonder

A new father's unguarded celebration of his infant daughter's birth, structured as a series of rhetorical questions that answer…

fatherhood and new life gratitude love as creative force

Bleed to Love Her

Fleetwood Mac

A quiet, aching meditation on a love that keeps retreating even as it beckons, sung by someone who has decided that pain is…

romantic devotion as endurance elusiveness and withdrawal sacrifice

Don't Say You Love Me

Free

A blues-rock confession about a relationship built on mutual convenience rather than love, sung by a narrator who admits he let…

loneliness and self-deception transactional intimacy emotional honesty vs. convenient lies

When I Loved Her

Kris Kristofferson

A plainspoken elegy for a lost relationship, built on unglamorous, specific praise rather than romantic cliché. The narrator…

loss and regret the ordinary made sacred restlessness vs. belonging

Give Me Your Love (Love Song)

Curtis Mayfield

A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…

romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship

Is It Love

Gang of Four

A fractured meditation on desire and alienation, this song asks whether what passes for love is really love at all, or just…

alienation under capitalism commodification of intimacy loss of language/memory

This Is Love

PJ Harvey

A blunt, riff-driven declaration of desire that keeps colliding with the speaker's own disbelief at how simple and overwhelming…

desire versus complexity secrecy and shame repetition as devotion

I'm In Love With a Girl

Big Star

A brief, almost naive love song stripped of metaphor and complication, where a man expresses plain astonishment at feeling love…

first love emotional vulnerability simplicity as sincerity

Love Bends

Wire

A short, incantatory list of contradictory claims about love, built almost entirely on repeating a single grammatical…

ambivalence of love transformation and distortion paradox

To Bring You My Love

PJ Harvey

PJ Harvey builds a self-mythologizing torch song out of biblical and folkloric imagery, casting devotion as a form of damnation.…

obsessive devotion blasphemy and sacrifice mythic self-invention

I Couldn't Love You More

Sade

A slow, incantatory love song built almost entirely on a single declarative claim, repeated until it becomes its own proof. Sade…

contentment devotion sufficiency

If I Could Only Win Your Love

The Louvin Brothers

A plain, pleading country ballad built entirely around a single conditional wish: to win the love of someone who remains just…

unrequited love longing devotion

I'm the Man Who Loves You

Wilco

A song about the gap between feeling and articulation, built around a narrator trying to write a love letter he can't finish.…

failure of language romantic devotion self-doubt

Love Galore

SZA

Love Galore is SZA's clipped, cool-voiced meditation on wanting intimacy without wanting the vulnerability that comes with it.…

emotional detachment as self-protection transactional intimacy power and control in casual relationships

Skinny Love

Bon Iver

A raw, fragmentary breakup address built from accusation and self-recrimination in equal measure, sung to a fading relationship…

dissolution of a relationship emotional exhaustion blame and self-blame

Tunnel of Love

Bruce Springsteen

Springsteen turns a boardwalk carnival ride into an extended metaphor for marriage, using the mechanics of a funhouse tunnel to…

marriage and disillusionment intimacy versus isolation fear beneath romantic ritual

I'm the Man Who Murdered Love

XTC

XTC's Andy Partridge stages a mock-confession, casting himself as an assassin who has killed off the very idea of romantic love…

disillusionment with romance performance of confession cynicism as self-defense

Love Is Just a Four-Letter Word

Joan Baez

A meditation on romantic disillusionment framed as a story about overhearing someone else's cynical wisdom and slowly coming to…

disillusionment with romantic love loss of innocence cyclical time and memory

My Love Mine All Mine

Mitski

A brief, hymn-like address to the moon in which the speaker asks that their love outlive their body. It works less as narrative…

mortality possession and dispossession love as legacy

The Book of Love

Peter Gabriel

This is a cover of the Magnetic Fields song, and Gabriel's version strips away Stephin Merritt's deadpan irony in favor of a…

romantic convention vs. lived intimacy tedium redeemed by love marriage and commitment

Freeway of Love

Aretha Franklin

A joyous, motorized courtship song built around a single sustained conceit: romance as a drive on an open highway. Aretha…

romance as motion/escape freedom and self-determination playful flirtation

God Blessed Our Love

Al Green

Al Green frames a romantic relationship as a sacred event, thanking a higher power for a love that feels chosen rather than…

sacred love gratitude devotion

I Love a Man In a Uniform

Gang of Four

A first-person portrait of a man who joins the military not out of conviction but as a solution to unemployment, lost…

militarism as consumer choice economic desperation masculinity and self-worth

Ever Fallen in Love?

Buzzcocks

A power-pop punk song about the humiliation of loving someone who treats you badly, built around a chorus whose grammar…

romantic humiliation self-recognition through a partner codependency

Love, Reign O'er Me

The Who

A single, almost liturgical plea builds around one pun -- love as both sovereign force and literal downpour -- to dramatize a…

spiritual thirst emotional exhaustion love as redemptive force

Love Is a Long Road

Tom Petty

A mid-tempo Heartbreakers-style rocker built around a single deflating refrain: whatever romance is being described, the song…

disillusionment with romantic idealism emotional exhaustion letting go

Sunday Kind of Love

Etta James

Etta James's reading of this standard turns a modest pop lyric into a slow-burning testimony about wanting permanence rather…

longing for commitment loneliness sacred vs. secular love

Give Love On Christmas Day

The Temptations

A holiday standard built on a simple, almost sermon-like premise: material gifts are fine, but love is the only present that…

generosity versus materialism universal love seasonal community

Can't Help Falling in Love

Kacey Musgraves

Kacey Musgraves' rendition of this 1961 standard, recorded for the 2022 Elvis biopic soundtrack, strips the song down to its…

surrender to love fate versus choice vulnerability

Can You Feel the Love Tonight

Elton John

A ballad of quiet emotional arrival, written for the moment in The Lion King when a wandering young lion falls into…

romantic surrender maturation and settling down wonder at the natural world

Love Will Find a Way

Yes

A commercial-rock love song built on hesitation rather than certainty, in which the narrator wavers between wanting closeness…

romantic ambivalence reassurance through repetition emotional confusion

Show Me Love

Robyn

A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…

romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity

I Love L.A.

Randy Newman

A booming, boosterish anthem that turns out to be a satire of boosterism itself: the narrator's civic pride is so shallow and…

civic pride as delusion class blindness American boosterism

Baby, This Love I Have

Minnie Riperton

A love song built around the gap between feeling and expression, in which the narrator worries that her devotion isn't landing…

communication anxiety reassurance devotion

For Your Precious Love

Otis Redding

Otis Redding takes the Impressions' original devotional ballad and turns it into a raw, almost pleading testimony of gratitude…

devotion gratitude doubt from outsiders

Love Will Tear Us Apart

Broken Social Scene

This is Broken Social Scene's rendition of Joy Division's 1980 classic, recorded for the soundtrack of The Time Traveler's Wife,…

romantic disintegration emotional stasis guilt and self-recrimination