Results for “self-importance vs. insignificance”

Songs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

Ballad of the Dying Man

Father John Misty

A satirical death-bed monologue in which a terminally online cultural critic obsesses, to his last breath, over who will keep…

vanity of moral certainty internet culture and outrage mortality

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

The Glory of Man

Minutemen

A brief, aphoristic piece in which the Minutemen compress a whole philosophical argument about human self-regard into a handful…

human self-image skepticism vs idealism scale and insignificance

Backwoods Barbie

Dolly Parton

Dolly Parton uses her own famously exaggerated image as the subject of a plainspoken self-defense, arguing that artifice and…

appearance vs. substance class and self-invention self-defense against stereotype

Don't Follow

Alice in Chains

A stripped-down acoustic confession from a narrator who insists on leaving while quietly begging to be brought back. The song…

addiction and self-destruction isolation vs. longing for home guilt and self-recrimination

Nobody

Mitski

A disco groove wraps around one of Mitski's bleakest lyrics, turning isolation into something you can dance to. The song tracks…

loneliness self-erasure longing for touch over love

The Narcissist

Blur

A comeback single that turns self-scrutiny into spectacle, staging the singer's return to public life as a confrontation with…

fame and self-image addiction and escape vulnerability vs. self-protection

Mannish Boy

Muddy Waters

Muddy Waters restages his own 1955 declaration of manhood as a late-career victory lap, spelling out the word itself to leave no…

masculinity and self-definition aging and vitality racial dignity ('man' vs 'boy')

Blow Up the Outside World

Soundgarden

A song built on a paradox: a narrator who insists he's unbreakable while quietly confessing he's contemplating annihilating the…

invulnerability as self-deception depression and self-destruction isolation vs. connection

Elevate Myself

Grandaddy

A songwriter's confession of exhaustion with the mechanics of making music for effect, paired with a plainer, almost desperate…

creative burnout self-loathing and self-forgiveness authenticity vs. craft

BALD!

JPEGMAFIA

BALD! is JPEGMafia in full battle-rap mode, using his shaved head as a running joke and a badge of honor while he torches…

hypermasculine boasting industry contempt self-image and self-mockery

Gangsta Rap Made Me Do It

Ice Cube

Ice Cube uses the media's stock accusation that gangsta rap 'causes' violence as a satirical device, exaggerating the charge…

media scapegoating and moral panic authenticity vs commercial gatekeeping black masculinity and self-reliance

Listen!!!

Talib Kweli

A hyper-percussive showcase track built almost entirely around the command to "listen," using that word as both hook and thesis:…

attention and distraction authenticity vs. commercial rap self-assertion of skill

Marry Me

St. Vincent

A woman proposes marriage to a man named John while openly admitting she plans to be emotionally absent and unfaithful the…

commitment vs. self-interest emotional unavailability performance of domesticity

Lose Myself

Lauryn Hill

A confessional meditation on self-abandonment as the price of loving someone else fully. The narrator traces a wound from past…

self-worth vs. self-erasure fear and vulnerability spiritual love versus romantic love

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Volcano

Damien Rice

A duet-shaped confession about mismatched intimacy, where the narrator warns a partner against overcommitting emotionally while…

emotional imbalance self-doubt in intimacy fear of dependency

Video

India.Arie

India.Arie sets her own image against the airbrushed, materialistic archetype of turn-of-the-millennium music videos, using…

self-acceptance body image anti-materialism

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Cheerleader

Grizzly Bear

A short, hypnotic song built around a repeated whispered aside that undercuts its own encouragement: the speaker admits to…

self-doubt emotional exhaustion performed positivity

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Brand New Love

Sebadoh

A lo-fi meditation on romantic instability, where the speaker watches someone drift toward a new attachment and frames that…

romantic insecurity inevitability of change social gossip and judgment

Trouble On Double Time

Free

A brash blues-rock boast about womanizing that curdles into confession, as the narrator's swagger about juggling multiple…

infidelity and desire self-awareness vs self-destruction masculine bravado

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Turn Out the Lights

Julien Baker

A quiet, unflinching account of a mind alone at night, where the speaker admits to self-harm ideation without melodrama and asks…

depression and isolation self-harm ideation asking for help while deflecting it

Frame By Frame

King Crimson

A short, incantatory lyric built from paired phrases that circle the idea of self-scrutiny curdling into self-destruction. The…

obsessive self-analysis psychological drowning fragmentation vs. wholeness

Don't Swallow the Cap

The National

A woozy, fragmented meditation on emotional exhaustion and self-medication, delivered from inside a mind that can't quite trust…

emotional numbness self-deception and coping isolation vs. reassurance

Model Worker

Magazine

A deadpan monologue delivered in the voice of someone confessing bourgeois failings to an unseen authority and pledging reform…

ideological conformity self-criticism and confession consumerism vs. asceticism

Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales

Car Seat Headrest

A meditation on addiction, self-destruction, and the possibility of change, filtered through the recurring image of driving…

addiction and self-destruction shame and self-loathing the possibility of redemption

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Hot & Heavy

Lucy Dacus

Lucy Dacus revisits an old, formative relationship with a former self who has since become someone else entirely — more…

nostalgia and revisitation growth and self-transformation guilt and self-protection

How Simple

Hop Along

A song about watching your own self-regard curdle in real time, as the narrator catches themselves vain, self-deceiving, and…

vanity and self-scrutiny romantic self-deception impermanence of intimacy

Don't Be Shy

Cat Stevens

A short, mantra-like song of encouragement that urges emotional openness over self-protection. It works less through narrative…

emotional openness fear vs. authenticity love as connection

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

Say Yes

Elliott Smith

A short, quiet song built around the phrase "morning after," which Smith turns from a hangover cliché into a metaphor for…

fragile hope fatalism vs. change romantic uncertainty

Academy Fight Song

Mission of Burma

A defiant refusal-of-conformity anthem that curdles into self-doubt by its final lines. The song sets up an adversarial…

conformity vs individuality institutional control self-doubt