Results for “self-improvement as anxiety”

Songs

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

At Home He's a Tourist

Gang of Four

A clipped, funk-inflected post-punk track that treats leisure, culture-consumption, and sexual routine as forms of alienated…

alienation under capitalism commodification of leisure and sex self-improvement as anxiety

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Destroyer

The Kinks

The Kinks revive Lola from their earlier hit only to trap her in a nervous, self-lacerating anthem about anxiety and…

paranoia and mental illness self-sabotage fame and surveillance anxiety

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Keep Yourself Alive

Queen

Queen's debut single is a wry survival manifesto disguised as a rock anthem, tracking a narrator who has chased every…

disillusionment with self-improvement excess and hollow experience survival versus success

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

Good Days

SZA

SZA builds a fragile refuge of hope inside a mind otherwise flooded with anxiety, heartbreak, and existential dread. The song…

mental exhaustion romantic disappointment anticipatory dread

Swingin Party

The Replacements

A wallflower's confession dressed up as a party invitation, this song uses the image of a never-ending bash to talk about…

social anxiety self-deprecation isolation within community

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Slow Show

The National

A socially anxious narrator stumbles through a party, undone by self-consciousness and low-grade panic, while yearning for the…

social anxiety longing for domestic intimacy self-deprecation

Better Get to Livin'

Dolly Parton

Dolly Parton turns a common question about her upbeat outlook into a self-help pep talk, structured as folksy advice dispensed…

self-improvement gratitude and generosity folk wisdom

Fool In the Rain

Led Zeppelin

A love song built around a single, faintly absurd predicament: a man waiting on a street corner for someone who never shows,…

misplaced faith romantic anxiety self-deception

Peacekeeper

Fleetwood Mac

Lindsey Buckingham turns a post-9/11 anxiety into a taut, addressed warning, speaking directly to an unnamed 'peacekeeper'…

war and militarism self-destruction complicity

Anti-Hero

Taylor Swift

Taylor Swift turns a self-lacerating confessional into a singalong chorus, cataloguing her worst self-perceptions—insomnia,…

self-loathing and self-awareness fame and disproportion fear of abandonment

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Everything Is Everything

Lauryn Hill

A meditation on cyclical change and self-determination that doubles as a virtuosic display of rap craft, this track pairs a…

cyclical change and renewal self-empowerment spiritual/religious syncretism

Chasing a Bee

Mercury Rev

A hazy, druggy fable about pursuit and containment, where sunlit imagery of seduction and pleasure keeps curdling into images of…

intoxication and altered perception freedom versus entrapment instability of the self

Be the Hook

Pavement

A loose, semi-improvised jam that pokes fun at the mechanics of rock performance itself, name-checking bandmates and mocking the…

self-referential performance parody of rock cliché band camaraderie

Oh My God

Adele

A woman recently out of a long relationship narrates the giddy, guilty rush of falling into a new attraction she knows is…

post-divorce self-reinvention guilt versus desire loss of control

Apeman

The Kinks

A satirical music-hall romp in which the narrator renounces modern civilization's pretensions and declares himself happier as a…

anti-civilization satire environmental anxiety nuclear dread

Harder Better Faster Stronger

Daft Punk

A single fragmented phrase is chopped, looped, and reassembled through vocoder into a mantra about relentless productivity and…

labor and productivity machine identity repetition and ritual

Don't Follow

Alice in Chains

A stripped-down acoustic confession from a narrator who insists on leaving while quietly begging to be brought back. The song…

addiction and self-destruction isolation vs. longing for home guilt and self-recrimination

Free

Florence + the Machine

A song about anxiety as a physical predator and dancing as the only available exit from it. Florence Welch frames mental illness…

anxiety and mental illness stigma and self-doubt catharsis through music/dance

Bigmouth Strikes Again

The Smiths

A serial motormouth apologizes for cruel things he's said, then dramatically inflates his guilt by comparing himself to a martyr…

guilt and self-loathing comic martyrdom the damage of words

Street Flash

Animal Collective

A song about the paralysis of anxious self-consciousness and the small, almost accidental relief of stepping outside. It moves…

anxiety and self-criticism domestic clutter as psychological weight inertia versus movement

Stop Me If You Think You've Heard This One Before

The Smiths

A breakneck, self-aware confession that treats romantic disappointment as a repeating accident nobody can prevent. The title's…

self-repeating heartbreak denial and accusation masochism and self-punishment

Bury Our Friends

Sleater‐Kinney

A comeback anthem that treats survival as a physical, almost surgical process — a body being stitched back together and forced…

reinvention and self-repair fame and visibility collective anxiety/dread

No Cities to Love

Sleater‐Kinney

Sleater-Kinney open their 2015 comeback album by stripping away the myth of place entirely, insisting that no city itself…

disillusionment with place/identity nuclear anxiety and dread self-erasure and emptiness

Backwoods Barbie

Dolly Parton

Dolly Parton uses her own famously exaggerated image as the subject of a plainspoken self-defense, arguing that artifice and…

appearance vs. substance class and self-invention self-defense against stereotype

Where's the Catch?

James Blake

A song about the discomfort of being happy, sung by someone so used to disappointment that contentment itself feels suspicious.…

distrust of happiness anxiety and self-sabotage intimacy versus paranoia

Squonk

Genesis

Genesis take the folkloric Squonk—a creature of Pennsylvania legend so ashamed of its own ugliness that it weeps constantly and…

shame and self-loathing the cruelty of pursuit despair and self-destruction

Resurrection

Common

An early showcase of Common's dense, freestyle-adjacent wordplay, this track is less about narrative than about verbal…

wordplay as identity self-improvement and discipline legal/moral peril

ATLiens

OutKast

A two-verse-plus-hook showcase where Big Boi and André 3000 each stake out their identity as outsiders within their own city and…

regional pride and specificity outsider/alien identity self-improvement and discipline

Babooshka

Kate Bush

Kate Bush tells a compact fable of a wife who sets a trap for her own marriage by inventing a mysterious alter ego, only to…

jealousy and self-sabotage disguise and identity the decay of romantic feeling

Cousin Dupree

Steely Dan

A slack, aging drifter moves onto his aunt's couch and develops an unseemly fixation on his young cousin, pitching her a…

arrested development delusional self-image taboo desire played for laughs

Gold Digger

Kanye West Tribute Band

A Ray Charles sample and a party-ready hook frame a much darker set of verses about money, sex, race, and resentment between men…

gender and money distrust and betrayal black masculinity and provider anxiety

Unf**ktheworld

Angel Olsen

A quiet, stripped-back breakup song that traces the moment self-abandonment turns into self-recovery. Olsen sings in a plain,…

self-abandonment and self-recovery romantic disillusionment solitude as survival

This Charming Man

The Smiths

A stranded young man with a broken bicycle is picked up by an older, wealthier stranger, and the encounter becomes a charged,…

class anxiety closeted desire vanity and self-consciousness