Results for “self-worth tied to another person”

Songs

Nobody Gets Me

SZA

A ballad about a relationship that keeps collapsing and reforming, built around the idea that intimacy and self-worth have…

codependency self-worth tied to another person cycles of breakup and reconciliation

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

For What It's Worth

The Staple Singers

This is the Staple Singers' cover of Buffalo Springfield's 1967 protest classic, recast through the group's gospel-soul vocal…

surveillance and fear generational conflict protest and its costs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Another Saturday Night

Sam Cooke

A breezy, self-mocking complaint from a young man stuck in a new town with cash in his pocket and no date on a Saturday night.…

loneliness displacement romantic frustration

Another Brick In the Wall, Pt. 3

Pink Floyd

This is the moment PinkInk's protagonist Pink completes his self-imposed isolation, rejecting comfort, chemical or human, as a…

emotional withdrawal self-destruction disguised as independence accumulated trauma

Another Tricky Day

The Who

A weary elder addresses a younger, self-absorbed complainer, insisting that their personal frustrations don't amount to a real…

patience versus impatience generational irritation perspective on suffering

Tie Your Mother Down

Queen

A hard-rock stomper about sneaking past disapproving parents to get to a girl, played entirely for comic, cartoonish swagger.…

teenage rebellion forbidden romance comic machismo

Personal Jesus

Johnny Cash

A Depeche Mode cover reworked through Johnny Cash's late-life persona, this version strips the original's synth seduction down…

false idols and substitute faith loneliness and isolation seduction and manipulation

Lose Myself

Lauryn Hill

A confessional meditation on self-abandonment as the price of loving someone else fully. The narrator traces a wound from past…

self-worth vs. self-erasure fear and vulnerability spiritual love versus romantic love

Home By Another Way

James Taylor

Taylor takes the biblical Magi's detour around Herod after visiting the infant Jesus and turns it into a wry parable about…

biblical allegory avoidance of tyranny/corruption wisdom and discretion

Radio

Lana Del Rey

A victory lap dressed as a love song: the narrator announces that fame and romantic fulfillment have arrived simultaneously, and…

fame as vindication American dream mythology self-worth tied to being desired

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Ft. Worth Blues

Steve Earle

Steve Earle's tribute to a departed friend (widely understood as Townes Van Zandt) turns a travelogue into an elegy, mapping…

grief and mourning itinerancy and homelessness artistic legacy

Life Worth Livin'

Uncle Tupelo

A dedication-turned-elegy for the defeated, this early Uncle Tupelo track surveys small-town despair and quietly asks whether…

small-town despair alcohol as coping mechanism spiritual exhaustion

Careful

Television

"Careful" stages a nervy standoff between protest and confession: a narrator insists he doesn't care about anything while the…

denial and self-deception paranoia emotional withdrawal

A Rose Is Still a Rose

Aretha Franklin

Aretha Franklin plays elder counselor to a wounded young woman, using the image of a rose to insist that sexual betrayal doesn't…

self-worth after betrayal intergenerational female solidarity resilience

Nobody

Mitski

A disco groove wraps around one of Mitski's bleakest lyrics, turning isolation into something you can dance to. The song tracks…

loneliness self-erasure longing for touch over love

Another Brick In the Wall, Pt. 1

Pink Floyd

This short opening piece establishes the album's central image—the wall built from accumulated emotional injuries—by introducing…

paternal absence childhood grief war's aftermath

I'd Like to Walk Around In Your Mind

Vashti Bunyan

A quiet, whimsical song about wanting intimate access to someone's inner life while wishing to remain undetected in it. Bunyan…

longing for intimacy the limits of knowing another person playful invasiveness

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

Bag Lady

Erykah Badu

Erykah Badu addresses an unnamed woman weighed down by emotional baggage from past relationships, using the extended image of a…

emotional baggage and self-protection letting go of past hurt self-worth versus accumulated pain

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

I Love a Man In a Uniform

Gang of Four

A first-person portrait of a man who joins the military not out of conviction but as a solution to unemployment, lost…

militarism as consumer choice economic desperation masculinity and self-worth

My Tulpa

Magazine

A tense, self-lacerating address to a phantom or projection—Devoto's title borrows the Tibetan Buddhist concept of a 'tulpa,' a…

obsession and self-deception desire mixed with fear the unreliability of perception

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Disrespectful

Chaka Khan

A woman confronts a partner who has grown cold and careless, cycling between anger at being taken for granted and nostalgic ache…

self-worth romantic disillusionment emotional labor

Do You Really Want Me (Show Respect)

Robyn

A teenage-pop relationship anthem from Robyn's mid-90s debut era that frames romantic worth as a transaction of effort and…

respect in relationships gender expectations conditional love

New Big Prinz

The Fall

A hypnotic, near-mantric chant that revolves around a mysterious figure called 'Big Priest' or 'Big Prinz,' whose worth is…

unrecognized authority ritual and repetition self-mythologizing

Doo Wop (That Thing)

Lauryn Hill

Lauryn Hill delivers a two-part sermon on sex, self-respect, and modern relationship dysfunction, addressing women in the first…

sexual double standards nostalgia for a simpler past personal responsibility

Hey Jude

The Beatles

A gentle, direct address to someone in pain gradually widens into a communal, wordless singalong that enacts the very…

consolation and encouragement fear of vulnerability transformation through repetition

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Kokomo, IN

Japanese Breakfast

A song written from the point of view of someone left behind by a person who's moved on to a bigger life, framed as a letter of…

unrequited devotion being left behind longing and patience

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

Don't Tell Me (What Love Can Do)

Van Halen

This is a defiant, almost reckless assertion of self-determination, delivered through a string of extreme hypothetical choices —…

free will vs fate rejection of moral instruction self-destruction as autonomy

Coming Up Roses

Elliott Smith

A hallucinatory address to a self or double, tracking a slow poisoning that the speaker frames as a kind of blooming. The song…

addiction and self-destruction dissociation from the self toxic inheritance

Everything Is Everything

Lauryn Hill

A meditation on cyclical change and self-determination that doubles as a virtuosic display of rap craft, this track pairs a…

cyclical change and renewal self-empowerment spiritual/religious syncretism