Results for “sexual autonomy and self-pleasure”

Songs

Self Control

Frank Ocean

A wistful, fragmented account of a fading summer romance that never quite resolved into anything permanent, sung from the…

unrequited or asymmetrical desire nostalgia for a shared past that never fully existed self-restraint and its collapse

Borderline (An Ode to Self Care)

Solange

A hushed, weary meditation on withdrawal as an act of love, this A Seat at the Table track frames stepping back from public and…

burnout and self-care solidarity under pressure the personal as political

The Woman with the Tattooed Hands

Atmosphere

Slug narrates a surreal, almost hallucinatory encounter with a solitary older woman whose hand tattoos come to embody the…

duality of good and evil sexual autonomy and self-pleasure voyeurism versus empathy

Nasty Gal

Betty Davis

Betty Davis takes the insults an ex has thrown at her -- witch, alley cat, dirty dog -- and turns them into a badge of honor,…

sexual autonomy reclaiming slurs female desire vs. respectability

All My Favorite Songs

Weezer

A catalog of small self-contradictions strung together into a chorus of self-diagnosis, this song treats confusion about one's…

self-contradiction anxiety and self-diagnosis ambivalence toward pleasure

Respect

Aretha Franklin

Aretha Franklin's reworking of a song originally about a working man asking for domestic peace turns it into a declaration of…

self-respect reciprocity in relationships female autonomy

Lost

Danny Brown

Danny Brown delivers a hedonistic braggadocio track that layers drug-dealing hustle narrative with drug-consuming decadence,…

hustle and survival drug culture (dealing and using) self-mythologizing success

A Rose Is Still a Rose

Aretha Franklin

Aretha Franklin plays elder counselor to a wounded young woman, using the image of a rose to insist that sexual betrayal doesn't…

self-worth after betrayal intergenerational female solidarity resilience

Golden

Jill Scott

An affirmation anthem built almost entirely around one refrain, in which the narrator claims freedom as a possession she carries…

self-determination joy as resistance spirituality

Honey

Robyn

"Honey" is a slow-burning dance track that turns sensual invitation into a philosophy of pleasure and self-repair. Built from…

desire and surrender self-care as sensuality the gap between want and need

Work It

Missy Elliott

Missy Elliott's signature single is a maximalist celebration of sexual confidence and self-invention, built on a literal sonic…

sexual agency self-invention and reinvention female solidarity and hustle

Built For Comfort

Howlin’ Wolf

A big man's boastful self-defense turns into an easy, unhurried seduction. Howlin' Wolf takes what could be an insult about his…

self-acceptance masculine boasting sexuality and endurance

I've Got What It Takes, But It Breaks My Heart to Give It Away

Bessie Smith

A comic blues built on a pun: the singer boasts she has 'what it takes' — desirability, sex appeal, and money — but refuses to…

financial independence female self-sufficiency sexual innuendo

Chasing a Bee

Mercury Rev

A hazy, druggy fable about pursuit and containment, where sunlit imagery of seduction and pleasure keeps curdling into images of…

intoxication and altered perception freedom versus entrapment instability of the self

I Am a Scientist

Guided by Voices

A short, deceptively simple lo-fi anthem in which the narrator cycles through professional identities—scientist, journalist,…

self-examination addiction and escape art as self-medication

A New Wave

Sleater-Kinney

A defiant statement of self-invention that refuses easy categorization, either as a musical movement or as a stable identity.…

self-definition against labels resistance to commodification anonymity as autonomy

Every Time the Sun Comes Up

Sharon Van Etten

This is Sharon Van Etten at her loosest and most winking, a track built on a single sardonic refrain about self-sabotage rather…

self-sabotage domestic disorder irony and deflection

Volcano

Damien Rice

A duet-shaped confession about mismatched intimacy, where the narrator warns a partner against overcommitting emotionally while…

emotional imbalance self-doubt in intimacy fear of dependency

Me and My Husband

Mitski

A brief, waltz-like song that frames marriage not as romance but as a bulwark against mortality and self-loathing. The…

mortality and impermanence self-erasure marriage as survival strategy

Cheerleader

Grizzly Bear

A short, hypnotic song built around a repeated whispered aside that undercuts its own encouragement: the speaker admits to…

self-doubt emotional exhaustion performed positivity

Nutshell

Alice in Chains

A short, stark meditation on isolation and self-erasure, built from two spare verses and a wordless, keening refrain. The song…

isolation loss of autonomy despair

Gold Star for Robot Boy

Guided by Voices

A short, riff-driven track from Bee Thousand that turns self-reliance into a kind of mechanical badge of honor. The narrator…

self-determination irony toward achievement/reward systems artistic autonomy

All Apologies

Nirvana

A closing statement of exhaustion dressed as a lullaby, where the singer offers blanket apology and self-erasure instead of…

self-effacement marriage and domesticity guilt and blame

I Take What I Want

Ann Peebles

A declaration of sexual and emotional appetite delivered without apology, this song is Ann Peebles claiming the traditionally…

female desire and agency self-possession pursuit and conquest

Ragtime Interlude / I'm Really Hot

Missy Elliott

This is a maximalist club-boast track built almost entirely around repetition and self-declaration, with Missy Elliott stacking…

sexual confidence commercial dominance dismissal of critics

Voodoo Chile Blues

Jimi Hendrix

This is the slow, extended blues incantation that Hendrix later compressed into 'Voodoo Child (Slight Return),' built around a…

self-mythology supernatural power cosmic/psychedelic imagery

Hoochie Coochie Man

Steppenwolf

This is Steppenwolf's cover of the Muddy Waters/Willie Dixon blues standard, retooled as a hard-rock strut rather than a Chicago…

masculine bravado folk magic and superstition predestination/fate

Oh My God

Adele

A woman recently out of a long relationship narrates the giddy, guilty rush of falling into a new attraction she knows is…

post-divorce self-reinvention guilt versus desire loss of control

Live Oak

Jason Isbell

A murder ballad disguised as a confession of self-improvement, in which the narrator's claim to have left his violent past…

duality of self violence and love intertwined addiction as haunting past self

Nobody Gets Me

SZA

A ballad about a relationship that keeps collapsing and reforming, built around the idea that intimacy and self-worth have…

codependency self-worth tied to another person cycles of breakup and reconciliation

Turn Out the Lights

Julien Baker

A quiet, unflinching account of a mind alone at night, where the speaker admits to self-harm ideation without melodrama and asks…

depression and isolation self-harm ideation asking for help while deflecting it

Drunk Drivers/Killer Whales

Car Seat Headrest

A meditation on addiction, self-destruction, and the possibility of change, filtered through the recurring image of driving…

addiction and self-destruction shame and self-loathing the possibility of redemption

Miss Misery

Elliott Smith

A stripped-down confession of failed self-repair, written for the film Good Will Hunting but functioning as a self-contained…

self-medication and denial romantic abandonment performed resilience

Hot & Heavy

Lucy Dacus

Lucy Dacus revisits an old, formative relationship with a former self who has since become someone else entirely — more…

nostalgia and revisitation growth and self-transformation guilt and self-protection

How Simple

Hop Along

A song about watching your own self-regard curdle in real time, as the narrator catches themselves vain, self-deceiving, and…

vanity and self-scrutiny romantic self-deception impermanence of intimacy

Bird On a Wire

Leonard Cohen

A confession and an apology run together as the speaker compares himself to a series of unstable, straining images to explain…

freedom versus commitment guilt and self-forgiveness instability of the self

Boats to Build

Guy Clark

Guy Clark turns the craft of boatbuilding into a meditation on making a life with your own hands and getting on with it before…

mortality and urgency craftsmanship as self-definition self-reliance

It's Not Right But It's Okay

Whitney Houston

A woman confronts a partner's infidelity using hard evidence rather than accusation, then pivots from hurt to expulsion. The…

infidelity and evidence self-respect over reconciliation resilience after betrayal

Coming Up Roses

Elliott Smith

A hallucinatory address to a self or double, tracking a slow poisoning that the speaker frames as a kind of blooming. The song…

addiction and self-destruction dissociation from the self toxic inheritance

No Man's Woman

Sinéad O’Connor

A declaration of independence from romantic possession, framed as a refusal rather than a lament. O'Connor sets up conventional…

autonomy versus possession distrust of romantic ownership spiritual love as refuge