Results for “shame”

Songs

Digging In the Dirt

Peter Gabriel

A song about excavating buried psychic damage, staged as a confrontation between a wounded self and an internal accuser. Peter…

psychological excavation self-recrimination control and coercion

Werewolf

Cat Power

Cat Power turns the werewolf myth into a spare, almost hymn-like meditation on shame, desire, and the parts of ourselves that…

shame and secrecy duality of self compulsion and desire

It's a Sin

Pet Shop Boys

A confessional pop song built on the grinding logic of Catholic guilt, where every desire and action the narrator has ever had…

religious guilt internalized shame repression

Lover Lover Lover

Leonard Cohen

A prayer disguised as a love song, built from a dialogue between a son and a father-God about shame, embodiment, and the…

shame and self-loathing faith and divine dialogue the body as trial

Chase the Tear

Portishead

A brief, incantatory piece built from fragmentary phrases rather than a clear narrative, tracking a speaker moving between…

shame and self-reckoning emotional withdrawal cyclical time / seasons as feeling

Kevin's Heart

J. Cole

J. Cole builds a confessional about infidelity around a strained pun on actor Kevin Hart, whose public cheating scandal becomes…

infidelity and guilt addiction as metaphor for compulsive behavior self-loathing and identity fracture

This Is Love

PJ Harvey

A blunt, riff-driven declaration of desire that keeps colliding with the speaker's own disbelief at how simple and overwhelming…

desire versus complexity secrecy and shame repetition as devotion

Got to Give It Up

Thin Lizzy

A confessional first-person account of addiction, framed as a series of messages sent to family members from someone who knows…

addiction and substance abuse shame and family self-destruction

You Know I'm No Good

Amy Winehouse

A confessional soul number in which the narrator catalogues her own infidelities and self-sabotage inside a volatile…

infidelity self-sabotage guilt and shame

Philadelphia

Neil Young

A spare, hymn-like address to fear and mortality, written for Jonathan Demme's film about a man dying of AIDS-related illness…

mortality stigma and shame need for belonging

Dirty Laundry

Danny Brown

Danny Brown turns a mundane household chore into a running double entendre for sexual and criminal grime, stacking…

sexual degradation as comedy poverty and hustling shame versus exposure

Walking in My Shoes

Depeche Mode

A confessional plea from someone who has been publicly judged for private sins, refusing to apologize while insisting his…

moral judgment and hypocrisy temptation and guilt empathy versus condemnation

Squonk

Genesis

Genesis take the folkloric Squonk—a creature of Pennsylvania legend so ashamed of its own ugliness that it weeps constantly and…

shame and self-loathing the cruelty of pursuit despair and self-destruction

Blackwaterside

Sandy Denny

This is a traditional British/Irish folk ballad given a spare, haunting reading by Sandy Denny, in which a woman recounts…

seduction and betrayal female shame and defiance broken promises

Sometimes a Fantasy

Billy Joel

A driving new-wave rocker about phone sex and the loneliness that drives someone to it, dressed up in a jittery, almost…

loneliness desire and substitution shame versus need

Bigmouth Strikes Again

The Smiths

A serial motormouth apologizes for cruel things he's said, then dramatically inflates his guilt by comparing himself to a martyr…

guilt and self-loathing comic martyrdom the damage of words

5:15

The Who

A disoriented young man rides a commuter train while his mind fractures into fragments of memory, sexual anxiety, and social…

dissociation and identity collapse adolescent sexuality and shame class and Englishness

Hunger

Florence + the Machine

An opening confession about adolescent anorexia expands into a wider meditation on addiction, performance, and the human need to…

eating disorders and body control addiction and substitution performance versus intimacy

Don't Give Up

Peter Gabriel

A duet built as an argument between despair and consolation: one voice details the humiliation of joblessness and displacement,…

unemployment and economic shame loss of identity and belonging depression and suicidal ideation

Hold On

Tom Waits

A road-worn ballad about a woman who flees a judgmental small town for California and ends up broke and cold in a motel, with a…

small-town judgment and shame escape and disillusionment poverty and survival

I Want Your Sex, Pts. 1 & 2

George Michael

George Michael turns a single, blunt demand into a sustained argument about desire, patience, and monogamy, dressing up a simple…

sexual desire and frustration persuasion and rhetoric monogamy versus promiscuity

The Weekend

SZA

SZA casts herself as the mistress in a triangle and refuses the shame the role usually carries, framing her position as a…

infidelity and complicity self-worth versus desire possession and comparison

Where You'll Find Me Now

Neutral Milk Hotel

A dense, image-clogged confession of shame and diminishment inside a fraught intimacy, where the speaker imagines himself…

guilt and self-punishment voicelessness corrupted intimacy