Results for “the gap between wanting love and knowing it”

Songs

Don't Want to Know If You Are Lonely

Hüsker Dü

A breakup song built on a contradiction: the narrator claims he wants distance from an ex-partner but keeps monitoring her…

ambivalence after a breakup emotional self-protection denial

I Don't Want to Know

Gladys Knight

Gladys Knight delivers a hard-edged breakup address to a partner who is leaving for someone else, refusing to grant him the…

betrayal and infidelity emotional exhaustion self-respect after sacrifice

I Know What I Know

Paul Simon

A slippery, satirical cocktail-party exchange dressed up as an Afro-pop groove, in which Paul Simon strings together…

social performance and vanity emptiness of small talk passivity and resignation

I Don't Want to Know

Fleetwood Mac

A folk-rock kiss-off built on willful avoidance: the narrator insists they won't ask why a relationship is ending, framing that…

denial as self-protection romantic exhaustion emotional withholding

All About Our Love

Sade

A spare, almost liturgical love song that trades narrative detail for repetition and affirmation. Sade uses a handful of phrases…

endurance of love forgiveness renewal

I Just Want To Make Love To You

Etta James

Etta James takes a Willie Dixon blues lyric written for a male singer and, sung from a woman's voice, turns a checklist of…

desire and domesticity gender role reversal possessiveness dressed as devotion

LOVE.

Kendrick Lamar

A relatively unguarded pop-leaning track for DAMN., LOVE. sets a domestic, romantic duet (with Zacari) against the album's…

conditional vs. unconditional love fame and material status as tests of loyalty domestic intimacy amid instability

Love More

Sharon Van Etten

A quietly devastating account of an abusive relationship told with disorienting flatness, where the speaker's memories of…

domestic abuse and control normalization of harm survival and self-deception

I Want You (Vocal)

Marvin Gaye

A slow-burning plea for mutual desire, built almost entirely on repetition of a single wish stated and restated until it becomes…

unreciprocated desire longing for mutuality vulnerability in seduction

For All We Know

Abbey Lincoln

A standard-era torch song built on a single plea: seize the present because permanence is never guaranteed. Abbey Lincoln's…

carpe diem uncertainty of the future mortality

Isn't She Lovely

Stevie Wonder

A new father's unguarded celebration of his infant daughter's birth, structured as a series of rhetorical questions that answer…

fatherhood and new life gratitude love as creative force

Give Me Your Love (Love Song)

Curtis Mayfield

A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…

romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship

Is It Love

Gang of Four

A fractured meditation on desire and alienation, this song asks whether what passes for love is really love at all, or just…

alienation under capitalism commodification of intimacy loss of language/memory

I'm In Love With a Girl

Big Star

A brief, almost naive love song stripped of metaphor and complication, where a man expresses plain astonishment at feeling love…

first love emotional vulnerability simplicity as sincerity

I Couldn't Love You More

Sade

A slow, incantatory love song built almost entirely on a single declarative claim, repeated until it becomes its own proof. Sade…

contentment devotion sufficiency

I Want You

Tom Waits

This piece reads less like a finished lyric than a raw studio artifact: a repetitive, formulaic love song built almost entirely…

longing distance repetition as devotion

If I Could Only Win Your Love

The Louvin Brothers

A plain, pleading country ballad built entirely around a single conditional wish: to win the love of someone who remains just…

unrequited love longing devotion

The Want of a Nail

Todd Rundgren

Rundgren takes an old proverb about a chain of small failures leading to catastrophe and grafts it onto a personal confession…

loneliness cause and effect personal responsibility

When I Loved Her

Kris Kristofferson

A plainspoken elegy for a lost relationship, built on unglamorous, specific praise rather than romantic cliché. The narrator…

loss and regret the ordinary made sacred restlessness vs. belonging

Don't Know Why

Smokey Robinson

A spare confession of regret builds around a single unanswered question: why didn't the narrator show up for someone waiting.…

regret emotional paralysis longing

God Only Knows

The Beach Boys

A love song built on an admission rather than a boast: the singer refuses to promise eternal devotion outright, instead…

dependence and self-erasure in love uncertainty as a form of honesty devotion expressed through negation

My Love Mine All Mine

Mitski

A brief, hymn-like address to the moon in which the speaker asks that their love outlive their body. It works less as narrative…

mortality possession and dispossession love as legacy

Sunday Kind of Love

Etta James

Etta James's reading of this standard turns a modest pop lyric into a slow-burning testimony about wanting permanence rather…

longing for commitment loneliness sacred vs. secular love

The Book of Love

Peter Gabriel

This is a cover of the Magnetic Fields song, and Gabriel's version strips away Stephin Merritt's deadpan irony in favor of a…

romantic convention vs. lived intimacy tedium redeemed by love marriage and commitment

Tunnel of Love

Bruce Springsteen

Springsteen turns a boardwalk carnival ride into an extended metaphor for marriage, using the mechanics of a funhouse tunnel to…

marriage and disillusionment intimacy versus isolation fear beneath romantic ritual

God Blessed Our Love

Al Green

Al Green frames a romantic relationship as a sacred event, thanking a higher power for a love that feels chosen rather than…

sacred love gratitude devotion

Who Knows Where the Time Goes

Fairport Convention

A meditation on mortality and constancy, written by Sandy Denny and here performed by Fairport Convention (who backed her on the…

mortality and impermanence the passage of time constancy in love

Love, Reign O'er Me

The Who

A single, almost liturgical plea builds around one pun -- love as both sovereign force and literal downpour -- to dramatize a…

spiritual thirst emotional exhaustion love as redemptive force

Love Galore

SZA

Love Galore is SZA's clipped, cool-voiced meditation on wanting intimacy without wanting the vulnerability that comes with it.…

emotional detachment as self-protection transactional intimacy power and control in casual relationships

Give Love On Christmas Day

The Temptations

A holiday standard built on a simple, almost sermon-like premise: material gifts are fine, but love is the only present that…

generosity versus materialism universal love seasonal community

Can't Help Falling in Love

Kacey Musgraves

Kacey Musgraves' rendition of this 1961 standard, recorded for the 2022 Elvis biopic soundtrack, strips the song down to its…

surrender to love fate versus choice vulnerability

Baby, This Love I Have

Minnie Riperton

A love song built around the gap between feeling and expression, in which the narrator worries that her devotion isn't landing…

communication anxiety reassurance devotion

Eye Know

De La Soul

"Eye Know" is De La Soul's sunniest love song, built on a Steely Dan sample and playful Daisy Age slang. Both Posdnuos and…

courtship and seduction wordplay as intimacy group identity and self-naming

I'm the Man Who Loves You

Wilco

A song about the gap between feeling and articulation, built around a narrator trying to write a love letter he can't finish.…

failure of language romantic devotion self-doubt

Don't Say You Love Me

Free

A blues-rock confession about a relationship built on mutual convenience rather than love, sung by a narrator who admits he let…

loneliness and self-deception transactional intimacy emotional honesty vs. convenient lies

Bleed to Love Her

Fleetwood Mac

A quiet, aching meditation on a love that keeps retreating even as it beckons, sung by someone who has decided that pain is…

romantic devotion as endurance elusiveness and withdrawal sacrifice

Show Me Love

Robyn

A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…

romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity

Just a Little

Gladys Knight

A plainspoken plea for reassurance, this song strips romantic anxiety down to one repeated question: is there enough love here…

romantic uncertainty need for validation fear of wasted devotion

To Bring You My Love

PJ Harvey

PJ Harvey builds a self-mythologizing torch song out of biblical and folkloric imagery, casting devotion as a form of damnation.…

obsessive devotion blasphemy and sacrifice mythic self-invention

For Your Precious Love

Otis Redding

Otis Redding takes the Impressions' original devotional ballad and turns it into a raw, almost pleading testimony of gratitude…

devotion gratitude doubt from outsiders