Results for “control versus surrender in love”

Songs

My Love Is Your Love

Whitney Houston

A reggae-tinged declaration of love built around apocalyptic and historical extremes, the song insists that a bond between two…

unconditional love survival and endurance spirituality and judgment

Love Bends

Wire

A short, incantatory list of contradictory claims about love, built almost entirely on repeating a single grammatical…

ambivalence of love transformation and distortion paradox

Love More

Sharon Van Etten

A quietly devastating account of an abusive relationship told with disorienting flatness, where the speaker's memories of…

domestic abuse and control normalization of harm survival and self-deception

Hounds of Love

Kate Bush

A woman being chased through a nocturnal forest realizes the thing pursuing her is love itself, and that her real terror is not…

fear of intimacy vulnerability vs self-protection the hunt as metaphor for love

LOVE.

Kendrick Lamar

A relatively unguarded pop-leaning track for DAMN., LOVE. sets a domestic, romantic duet (with Zacari) against the album's…

conditional vs. unconditional love fame and material status as tests of loyalty domestic intimacy amid instability

Can't Help Falling in Love

Kacey Musgraves

Kacey Musgraves' rendition of this 1961 standard, recorded for the 2022 Elvis biopic soundtrack, strips the song down to its…

surrender to love fate versus choice vulnerability

You Made Me Love You (I Didn't Want To Do It)

Patsy Cline

This is a classic Tin Pan Alley standard reworked through Patsy Cline's country-pop phrasing, built almost entirely around a…

reluctant surrender desire versus resistance emotional vulnerability

All About Our Love

Sade

A spare, almost liturgical love song that trades narrative detail for repetition and affirmation. Sade uses a handful of phrases…

endurance of love forgiveness renewal

If You Love Me

B.B. King

This is a plainspoken love-and-commitment song built almost entirely on conditional statements, trading the verse-chorus…

conditional love mutual understanding commitment

This Is Love

PJ Harvey

A blunt, riff-driven declaration of desire that keeps colliding with the speaker's own disbelief at how simple and overwhelming…

desire versus complexity secrecy and shame repetition as devotion

New York, I Love You But You're Bringing Me Down

LCD Soundsystem

A love-hate valediction to a gentrifying New York, delivered as a slow-building elegy that mixes weary sociological observation…

gentrification and urban decay nostalgia versus reality ambivalent love for place

Show Me Love

Robyn

A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…

romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity

In Love With You

Erykah Badu

A hypnotic, mantra-like love song built almost entirely on the repeated declaration of its title, with verses that swap…

romantic devotion mutual vulnerability indifference to outside judgment

And I Love Him

Shirley Horn

Shirley Horn's rendering of the Lennon-McCartney standard (gender-flipped from the Beatles' original) strips the song down to a…

devotion constancy simplicity of love

Isn't She Lovely

Stevie Wonder

A new father's unguarded celebration of his infant daughter's birth, structured as a series of rhetorical questions that answer…

fatherhood and new life gratitude love as creative force

No Surrender

Bruce Springsteen

A road-tested anthem about clinging to youthful vows of loyalty and defiance even as adulthood erodes the certainty behind them.…

youthful idealism versus adult disillusionment friendship and loyalty as survival strategy nostalgia for adolescent certainty

Give Me Your Love (Love Song)

Curtis Mayfield

A slow-burning soul ballad built almost entirely around a single plea, this track works less through storytelling than through…

romantic devotion vulnerability refuge from hardship

She's Lost Control

Joy Division

A stark, clinical account of watching someone lose command of their own body and mind, built around a mechanical repeated…

loss of control epilepsy/illness powerlessness of the observer

Love Comes Quickly

Pet Shop Boys

A synth-pop meditation on love as an inevitable force that overtakes even those who have arranged their lives to avoid it. The…

inevitability of love isolation vs. connection hedonism as avoidance

The Book of Love

Peter Gabriel

This is a cover of the Magnetic Fields song, and Gabriel's version strips away Stephin Merritt's deadpan irony in favor of a…

romantic convention vs. lived intimacy tedium redeemed by love marriage and commitment

Love Is Like a Heat Wave

The Supremes

A woman tries to name an overwhelming physical sensation of desire and cannot settle on whether it is bliss or affliction, so…

overwhelming desire loss of control bodily sensation as metaphor for emotion

Love You All My Lifetime

Chaka Khan

A ballad of romantic devotion built on longing rather than resolution: the narrator insists a departed lover was fated to be…

unrequited or lost love fate versus self-doubt longing and yearning

Can You Feel the Love Tonight

Elton John

A ballad of quiet emotional arrival, written for the moment in The Lion King when a wandering young lion falls into…

romantic surrender maturation and settling down wonder at the natural world

Give Love On Christmas Day

The Temptations

A holiday standard built on a simple, almost sermon-like premise: material gifts are fine, but love is the only present that…

generosity versus materialism universal love seasonal community

Make You Feel My Love

Adele

A plainspoken devotional ballad in which the singer catalogs the hardships she'd endure to prove her love, building through…

unconditional devotion persuasion and reassurance vulnerability

Is It Love

Gang of Four

A fractured meditation on desire and alienation, this song asks whether what passes for love is really love at all, or just…

alienation under capitalism commodification of intimacy loss of language/memory

I'm In Love With a Girl

Big Star

A brief, almost naive love song stripped of metaphor and complication, where a man expresses plain astonishment at feeling love…

first love emotional vulnerability simplicity as sincerity

Love Will Find a Way

Yes

A commercial-rock love song built on hesitation rather than certainty, in which the narrator wavers between wanting closeness…

romantic ambivalence reassurance through repetition emotional confusion

I Couldn't Love You More

Sade

A slow, incantatory love song built almost entirely on a single declarative claim, repeated until it becomes its own proof. Sade…

contentment devotion sufficiency

I Love the Lord

Whitney Houston

A gospel testimony built almost entirely from a single scriptural refrain, this recording turns a short devotional statement…

divine refuge suffering and lament faith as action

Girl I Love You

Massive Attack

A stark breakup lyric built almost entirely from repetition, in which the singer's declaration of love and his admission that…

loss and lingering love emotional contradiction distance and displacement

To Love Somebody

Roberta Flack

Roberta Flack takes the Bee Gees' 1967 pop-soul standard and slows it into a devotional plea, stretching the original's ache…

unrequited devotion emotional isolation the limits of language to convey feeling

If I Could Only Win Your Love

The Louvin Brothers

A plain, pleading country ballad built entirely around a single conditional wish: to win the love of someone who remains just…

unrequited love longing devotion

Love Galore

SZA

Love Galore is SZA's clipped, cool-voiced meditation on wanting intimacy without wanting the vulnerability that comes with it.…

emotional detachment as self-protection transactional intimacy power and control in casual relationships

Message Of Love

The Pretenders

A live rendering of a Pretenders anthem that treats love as a communal, almost civic obligation rather than a private feeling.…

love as mutual obligation solidarity amid hardship romantic devotion

Digital Love

Daft Punk

A vocoder-warped love song built entirely inside a dream, where romantic connection dissolves the moment consciousness intrudes.…

unrequited longing dreams versus reality nostalgia for disco romance

My Only Love

Roxy Music

A stripped-back ballad of loss and devotion, built almost entirely from plain declarative phrases and a repeated title-hook that…

romantic loss memory and permanence the inadequacy of language

When I Loved Her

Kris Kristofferson

A plainspoken elegy for a lost relationship, built on unglamorous, specific praise rather than romantic cliché. The narrator…

loss and regret the ordinary made sacred restlessness vs. belonging

Let Your Love Flow

Joan Baez

This is a straightforward, sunny cover of the Bellamy Brothers' soft-pop hit, built entirely around an extended nature metaphor…

romantic surrender nature as metaphor seasonal renewal

Lose Control

Missy Elliott

This is a call-and-response club track built almost entirely as choreography instructions and hype-man ad-libs, with the thesis…

surrender to rhythm bodily confidence collective release