Results for “memory versus forgetting”

Songs

Forget About It

Alison Krauss

A breakup song built on a paradox: the narrator repeats the command to forget as a way of proving she can't. Every dismissive…

denial as coping unresolved heartbreak performed indifference

I Can't Forget

Leonard Cohen

A wry, half-comic meditation on aging and memory dressed up as a road song. The narrator sets out to reclaim some lost person or…

memory and forgetting aging exodus/departure

Forget

Mission of Burma

A tense, fragmented verse of institutional imagery and social alienation gives way to a chant-like chorus that offers a single,…

alienation self-erected isolation intimacy as escape

Memories

The Temptations

A ballad of retrospective heartbreak in which the narrator catalogues small domestic pleasures from a lost relationship,…

nostalgia loss of love unresolved grief

Back Down Memory Lane

Minnie Riperton

A single found photograph pulls the narrator involuntarily into a past relationship she thought she'd buried. What starts as…

involuntary memory grief over lost love loss of control

Fragile

Cassandra Wilson

This is a cover of a song originally written by Sting, reframed here through Cassandra Wilson's smoky, unhurried phrasing on her…

violence and its aftermath fragility of human life memory versus forgetting

Easy to Slip

Little Feat

A short, melancholic meditation on emotional numbness after a breakup, where drifting into forgetfulness feels dangerously…

emotional numbness memory and forgetting romantic loss

Whiskey River

Willie Nelson

A heartbroken man addresses whiskey itself as a kind of substitute lover or guardian, begging it to erase the memory of the…

heartbreak addiction as refuge self-erasure

Whispering Grass

Sandy Denny

Sandy Denny's recording of this 1940s standard turns a slight, novelty-adjacent lyric about gossiping foliage into something…

secrecy and gossip buried memories nature as confidant

Holes

Mercury Rev

"Holes" is a hazy, impressionistic meditation on loss and the failure of memory to hold together, built almost entirely from…

memory and forgetting grief disorientation

Goodbye

Steve Earle

A quiet, unadorned reckoning with a relationship dissolved somewhere in a haze of substance abuse, told by a narrator who can…

addiction and memory loss romantic loss guilt and self-reproach

Supercut

Lorde

Lorde uses the language of video editing to describe how memory sands a failed relationship down into its highlight reel. The…

selective memory idealization of a lost relationship self-deception

In My Life

The Beatles

A quiet reckoning with memory, this song moves from cataloguing remembered places and people to settling on a present love that…

memory and nostalgia mortality the present versus the past

A Face In the Crowd

Tom Petty

A hushed, almost hymn-like meditation on the moment a stranger becomes singular, this song strips romance down to a single image…

chance encounters fate versus randomness idealization of a stranger

Holocene

Bon Iver

A song built from disconnected fragments of memory — a Halloween mishap, a burnt-down bar, a Christmas night with a brother —…

memory and its unreliability humility versus self-importance nostalgia for place

If I Ever See You Again

Roberta Flack

A quiet, aching ballad built around a single conditional wish -- the hope of a reunion the singer knows may never come. Flack…

longing regret idealized love

Pictures of You

The Cure

A grief-drenched meditation on a lost relationship, told entirely through the act of staring at photographs and the memories…

grief and loss memory versus reality obsessive love

100%

Sonic Youth

A tribute song built from fragments of grief, aggression, and dark humor, written in memory of a scene figure lost to violence.…

violent death and its aftermath rock scene mythology and idolization gender and predation within a music subculture

Earthbound

Rodney Crowell

Rodney Crowell weighs the pull of escape—into fantasy, death, or transcendence—against the stubborn pleasures of ordinary life,…

mortality and mid-life reflection gratitude versus escapism love and social barriers

Tiny Dancer

Elton John

A soft-focus portrait of a woman moving through the early-1970s Los Angeles music scene, seen through the eyes of an admirer who…

idealized femininity life on tour / music-industry culture memory versus presence

No Room In Frame

Death Cab for Cutie

A breakup song built around the image of a photograph's frame—one person edged out as the other steps into visibility and…

dissolution of a relationship fame/visibility eclipsing intimacy memory and forgetting

Unshaken

D'Angelo

A meditative prayer set against apocalyptic collapse, this song written for a game about the closing of the American frontier…

spiritual endurance moral reckoning memory and forgetting

Say Something Loving

The xx

A love song built out of doubt rather than certainty, tracking a narrator relearning intimacy after emotional numbness. The xx…

emotional numbness vulnerability in new intimacy memory and forgetting

Nothing, Not Nearly

Laura Marling

A brief, elegiac song about a fading connection remembered mostly through fragments of landscape and season, arriving at a…

impermanence memory and forgetting depression and emotional numbness

She

Gram Parsons

A hymn-like tribute to an unnamed Southern Black woman, built around the recurring refrain of her singing voice as the one…

Southern history and labor faith and gospel devotion admiration across difference

Beach Baby

Bon Iver

A short, hazy meditation on a departure that's treated with strange tenderness -- the singer asks a lover to leave without…

parting and impermanence memory intruding on the present ambivalence about closure

Veronica

Elvis Costello

A deceptively bouncy pop song about an elderly woman disappearing into dementia, told partly through the eyes of a younger…

dementia and memory loss identity and naming youth versus old age

Peacock Tail

Boards of Canada

An instrumental piece built from warped guitar tones, tape-warble melody and a loping downtempo beat, "Peacock Tail" uses its…

nostalgia and memory decay natural imagery translated into sound ornamentation and pattern

Distant Lover

Marvin Gaye

A slow-burning soul lament built almost entirely on repetition and vocal ad-lib, in which the narrator addresses a lover who has…

longing and absence romantic betrayal memory versus present loss

Blood Bank

Bon Iver

A short, wintry song built around an odd, almost clinical meet-cute at a blood bank that gradually reveals itself as a…

intimacy and secrecy blood and kinship as metaphor for love the limits of language

Burn On

Randy Newman

A miniature, deadpan ballad built around the 1969 Cuyahoga River fire, in which Newman turns an environmental disaster into a…

industrial pollution irony of civic pride environmental degradation

Dancing star

Pet Shop Boys

A biographical tribute in the form of a synth-pop anthem, tracing a defector's escape from the Soviet Union to global stardom in…

defection and exile fame and celebrity freedom versus authoritarianism

Guiding Light

Television

A slow, piano-led ballad from Marquee Moon's back half, this song trades the album's angular guitar interplay for something…

disorientation longing for stability romantic uncertainty

The Frozen Man

James Taylor

James Taylor spins a science-fiction folk tale about a 19th-century sailor revived after a century frozen in ice, using the…

mortality and the fear of dying twice technology versus nature alienation and displacement in time

White Ferrari

Frank Ocean

A hushed meditation on a fading relationship, framed through the image of a car ride and the drift between two people who once…

fading intimacy transience and impermanence emotional withholding

Simulation Swarm

Big Thief

A hazy, image-drenched love song that treats intimacy as something both cosmic and fragile, staged inside a metaphor of the…

impermanence and renewal love as refuge from unreality memory and childhood

Prester John

Animal Collective

A meditation on decline and letting go, framed through the legendary figure of Prester John, a mythical Christian king whose…

decay and endings myth versus reality acceptance and release

Forgotten Eyes

Big Thief

A meditation on collective neglect—of the homeless, the addicted, the discarded—that refuses to let the singer stand outside the…

homelessness and addiction collective guilt memory and erasure

Superstar

Sonic Youth

Sonic Youth's cover of the Carpenters' "Superstar" strips the original's lush orchestration down to a slow, droning haze,…

one-sided obsession loneliness the falseness of mediated intimacy

Outdoor Miner

Wire

A deceptively sweet pop song from a band known for angular art-punk, built around the tiny natural phenomenon of a leaf-mining…

nature observation hiddenness and exposure innocence versus threat