Chet Baker
Chet Baker's reading of this Rodgers and Hart standard turns a bright, playful showtune into something hushed and interior.…
anticipation of love imagination versus reality romantic idealism
Sonic Youth
A love-as-arson song that turns romantic devastation into a fire-and-rescue scenario, with the narrator both perpetrator and…
romantic destruction self-annihilation violence as intimacy
Townes Van Zandt
This is a Rolling Stones cover (Jagger/Richards) performed live by Townes Van Zandt on Roadsongs, and in his hands the song's…
class resentment addiction and self-destruction romantic betrayal
The Replacements
A scrappy, two-minute blast of teenage bravado that barely holds together as a song, which is the point: Westerberg sketches a…
adolescent defiance self-destructive pride desire disguised as indifference
Adele
A ballad of collapse and self-immolation in a relationship, where the narrator moves from surrender to a lover who deceived her,…
romantic betrayal self-destruction as catharsis obsessive attachment
Tom Petty
A mid-tempo Heartbreakers-style rocker built around a single deflating refrain: whatever romance is being described, the song…
disillusionment with romantic idealism emotional exhaustion letting go
Warren Zevon
A junkie in a rundown corner of Los Angeles narrates his own decline in a strangely tender, almost comic voice, addressing an…
addiction and withdrawal romantic longing as survival strategy poverty and bureaucracy
Queen
A deceptively simple breakup anthem built on repetition and plain declarative statements, John Deacon's song uses the language…
liberation romantic disillusionment self-assertion
Steve Earle
A wry character sketch of an unrepentant romantic drifter told from the outside, by a narrator warning a woman about the man's…
romantic recidivism performance vs. sincerity the myth of the outlaw lover
Waylon Jennings
A plainspoken defense of romantic independence, delivered in Waylon Jennings' outlaw drawl. The narrator explains, without…
romantic independence resistance to conformity outlaw self-mythology
Roxy Music
A quiet plea for romantic risk-taking from a narrator who has been burned by love before. The song trades Roxy Music's earlier…
romantic vulnerability emotional fatigue hope after disappointment
Smokey Robinson
A straightforward declaration of romantic devotion, built on the classic Smokey Robinson template of certainty and fidelity. The…
romantic devotion certainty/fate fidelity
Blondie
A slight, doo-wop-inflected pop song about physical longing dressed up as teenage romantic melodrama. Blondie plays it as a…
desire and physical longing romantic jealousy performance of innocence vs. sexuality
The Shins
A love song built on plain, almost naive declarations that gradually reveal a deeper argument about vulnerability and rescue.…
romantic gratitude vulnerability vs. toughness rescue and renewal
Billie Holiday
A standard from the Kern-Fields songbook, delivered here as a hushed, intimate meditation rather than a big romantic…
romantic devotion memory as consolation vulnerability
Robyn
A teenage Robyn's breakout single is a straightforward Eurodance declaration of romantic surrender, built around a repeated plea…
romantic vulnerability independence versus surrender demand for reciprocity
Gladys Knight
A plainspoken plea for reassurance, this song strips romantic anxiety down to one repeated question: is there enough love here…
romantic uncertainty need for validation fear of wasted devotion
Nat King Cole
A classic Cuban bolero of romantic frustration, in which a lover demands a straight answer about the future of the relationship…
romantic indecision frustration and waiting time slipping away
Mitski
A song about the vertigo of infatuation, where love feels less like comfort than like standing on a ledge. Mitski's narrator…
romantic obsession fear of vulnerability arrested emotional development
Bad Company
A late-period Bad Company track built around a simple, almost adolescent premise: a narrator paralyzed by unspoken feelings for…
unrequited longing fear of rejection romantic timidity
Ella Fitzgerald
A Gershwin standard delivered as a quiet meditation on romantic longing, framed through the image of a lost lamb searching for a…
romantic longing vulnerability self-deprecating humor
Talib Kweli
A breezy, radio-ready love-and-lust song built around a repeated hook praising a woman's heat and appeal. Talib Kweli trades his…
desire and attraction romantic idealization pop culture reference as flattery
Richard Thompson
A first-person account of self-sabotage—hanging, shipwrecking, sabotaging one's own vehicle of escape—that keeps circling back…
self-destruction dependence on others redemption/salvation
Whitney Houston
A devotional love ballad built almost entirely on a single act of assertion: repeated declarations of faith in a partner rather…
romantic devotion faith and belief as metaphor for love surrender/vulnerability
Angel Olsen
A driving, garage-pop declaration of romantic persistence, in which the narrator refuses to let a faltering relationship end…
romantic persistence refusal to quit desire versus communication
Neutral Milk Hotel
A meditation on love, mortality, and impermanence that blurs the line between romantic address and elegy, filtered through Jeff…
mortality and impermanence romantic devotion memory and loss
Thin Lizzy
A confessional first-person account of addiction, framed as a series of messages sent to family members from someone who knows…
addiction and substance abuse shame and family self-destruction
The Fall
This is a plainspoken cautionary tale about romantic self-deception: a man ignores his own instincts, falls hard for a woman who…
self-deception romantic ruin pride and consequence
The Flaming Lips
This is a reading of the Madonna song "Borderline" as performed by The Flaming Lips, a cover that repurposes a glossy 1984…
romantic ambivalence emotional dependency longing for freedom
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
A stripped-down plea built almost entirely on repetition, "Maps" strips romantic longing down to a handful of phrases repeated…
romantic insecurity possessiveness disguised as devotion fear of abandonment
The Strokes
The title track of The Strokes' debut is a woozy, deadpan meditation on romantic and existential exhaustion, delivered in a…
disaffection romantic dishonesty generational ennui
Irving Berlin's standard is a compact declaration of romantic relief, built almost entirely on the pun between 'blue' as color…
romantic joy transformation of perception time and its acceleration in love
Lana Del Rey
An early, previously shelved Lana Del Rey track built almost entirely on a single plea for devotion and surrender, framed as a…
devotion and surrender romantic idolization fate versus choice
Gregory Porter
A soft, devotional love song that treats a romantic partner as a near-mythical arrival — someone who seems to have literally…
romantic wonder divinity/transcendence in love healing through love
Led Zeppelin
A folk-inflected ballad about chasing an idealized woman and a fresh start in California, only to find the search shading into…
romantic idealization escape and reinvention California mythology
Television
Television's "Glory" plays a lopsided, almost cartoonish romantic squabble against a chant that sounds like religious…
romantic confusion transcendence vs. absurdity surrender of anxiety
A late-career Smokey Robinson love song that turns a simple plea into a multilingual serenade, cycling through French, Spanish,…
romantic devotion universality of love gratitude
Kendrick Lamar
Built around a Luther Vandross/Cheryl Lynn duet sample, this GNX track finds Kendrick trading his usual combative persona for…
romantic devotion escapism through fantasy protection and provision
Massive Attack
A stripped, weary meditation on romantic inertia, sung by Sara Jézéquel (credited as Sarah Jay) with Robert Del Naja's added…
emotional numbness romantic dependency self-dissolution
Frank Sinatra
A classic torch-song-turned-swing-standard about loneliness resolved by sudden romantic arrival, addressed to the moon as silent…
loneliness romantic transformation fate and chance